CANADIAN PHYSIQUE ALLIANCE APRIL 2019 | Page 67

These are considered to be missed opportunities which can be bitter pills to swallow. As heartbreaking as a mistake can be in a big competition, that one moment does not tell the truth about who you are as a bodybuilder. This is a difficult concept for many bodybuilders to buy into. THE STING OF DEFEAT IS HARD The sting of defeat is hard but some bodybuilders agonize when they see themselves as the sole reason for a negative outcome. They didn’t place where they wanted and mistakenly conclude they’re not “good enough” not just as a bodybuilder but as a person in general. How they see themselves correlates to their judged performance. It is understandable to experience negative emotions after a missed opportunity. You’re human. You put in a lot of work, dedicate a vast amount of time and make tremendous sacrifices as a bodybuilder to put yourself in a position to succeed.