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THERE is one thing that
destroys relationships between couples of all ages
be it in teenage relationships, young
adults or married people, it’s the interference of other people and their
involvement in couples’ affairs. The
moment people start telling you tales
about your partner and as soon as
they get too involved to a point that
they control your lives it becomes a
huge problem. As much as you need
help and advice from other people
from time to time, one must learn to
maintain independence as well as to
develop the ability to deal with his or
her issues on their own sometimes.
Friend just won’t mind his or her
own business!
As much as you love your friends
sometimes you just want them to
keep their distance especially when it
comes to your love life. Some friends
always have something to say about
your lover, not necessarily meaning that they are out to destroy your
relationship but sometimes it might
just be too much for you to handle.
As a friend one needs to know when
to draw the line. You must not allow
friends must not meddle in your
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affairs to a point that they end up
knowing each and every detail about
your relationship. Tell your friends
how much you appreciate their
concern for you and let them know
how much you would love to learn to
handle your affairs on your own.
Mummy knows best!
There is nothing as frustrating as
being in a relationship with someone
and you feel like you are suffocating
because your space is being invaded.
When it comes to their sons, mothers often feel like they know best, but
the truth is sometimes momma has
to step down a bit. You know you
are in a relationship with a momma’s
boy when mummy wants to stamp
her authority and prove she is better than any woman her son gets
involved with. When mum interferes
a lot problems and fights are likely
to pop up. As a man it is important
to communicate with your mother
and let her know how much both she
and your lover mean to you, it’s not
a competition after all. At the end
of the day you need both of them in
your life.
Brother thinks he is superman!
When it comes to their sisters, brothers always feel like no man can ever
be good enough for their sister and
as a result he makes his sister’s lover’s
life a living hell. Often when a brother finds out a man has mistreated his
sister, the first thing that comes to his
mind is to break his bones, but the
question is, will he always be around
to fight his sister’s battles for the rest
of her life? As a couple people need
to make their own rules and learn to
abide by them. Ladies tell your dear
brother to teach his fellow brothers
to be better men so that all men can
be the kind of men he wants for you!
by Nozipho Ncube| image
source: solutionmarriageblog