August 2017
Because of this partition, a wall was erected in Berlin
dividing the two regions. Once people from East
Germany dumped a load of rubbish into the West
Germany area. The people in the West Germany
could have done a similar thing, but they reciprocated
by loading the other side with food items and other
eatables. They also kept a slip which said, 'Each gives
what he has.' How true! We can only give what we
have. Later on, this paved a way for a creation of a
goodwill which led to the unification of West
Germany with the East.
What do we have inside of us? Love or hate;
peace or war; life or death!
May God give us grace to overcome evil with
good.
on fire by hell.”
Sometimes when we are blamed for things that
we have not done, we use many unnecessary words
and make the situation more complicated. How are
we to respond to such situations?
Jesus Christ is our role model. When Jesus was
falsely-charged with various accusations by the High
Priest and the Teachers of the Law, He did not fight
back. He did not even open His mouth in His defence,
much to the amazement of His accusers (Mat 27: 13,
14). In a similar manner Joseph too did not fight back
when he was falsely accused by Potiphar's wife.
People may talk against us and may wrongly accuse
us. But let us learn to be silent like Jesus. And peace
will abound in us.
3. Don't Be Quick-Tempered
There is no doubt that anger plays a vital role
for the breakdown of relationships. Anger lodges in
the heart of fools says the Bible (Ecc 7:9). Anger not
only destroys the peace of the one who holds it but it
affects the entire atmosphere. Jesus said, 'Blessed are
the meek, for they shall inherit the earth' (Mat 5:5).
Many a time we lose our patience and relationships
are broken.
2. Control Your Tongue
For many of our problems in relationships, the
root cause is the tongue. Words of anger, hate, back-
biting, gossips, all originate from the tongue.
Jas 3:5,6 “ So also the tongue is a small
member, yet it boasts of great things. How great a
forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the
tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The
tongue is set among our members, staining the whole
body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set
In Judges Chapter 8, we read about an incident
when the people of Ephraim angrily reacted over
Gideon for not inviting them for war. But Gideon's
smooth reply pacified them. In our lives too, when
faced with such situations, we should learn to react in
a patient and mature manner. Doing so, we will save
relationships. So never be quick-tempered.
4. Let It Go
Selfishness and not letting go often increase
tensions and spoil peace. We should let go of things,
positions or properties which might rightfully belong
to us. In such situations giving-up will resolve issues
and peace will prevail. But it is a tough decision to
take. It might involve sacrifice.
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