Business Fit Magazine Special Editions Mother & Daughter Special Edition | Page 8

In relation to work, I have my own brand and I
was delivering business masterminds for women
entrepreneurs which were very successful.
Business Accelerator Mastermind (BAM) was all
about having a small intimate group of successful
women (by that I mean successful on the outside!)
together where I could grow their self-confidence
and accelerate their businesses at the same
time. The last one I did was amazing and totally
surpassed my expectations with regards to the
calibre of attendees, the education and the
whole feeling of the event. My daughter, Alisha
who was 14 years old, two of her friends and my
mother-in-law were also there. Ali and her friend
led one of the groups, with support from my PA
and events manager, doing angel card readings
for me whilst I was with one of our celebrity guest
speakers.
The feedback from all the guests humbled me as
usual, except one. She said that the event was
amazing, but she felt it was too family focused.
At first, I was upset about this comment as I was
there to serve every one of my ladies. I meditated
on it, went deep into why this comment affected
me so much and consulted my many coaches.
The outcome was - I want this to be family
oriented. I want to grow my daughter along
the process….and why don’t I grow other lady’s
daughters along the way as well.
This is when the seed was sown.
This came soon after another incident which
occurred while I was on holiday in Bali with my
two children. I received a Facebook message
from someone I didn't know, telling me that my
mum had passed away that morning. She didn't
want me and my siblings to be told but he felt
that it was only right we were informed. It was 30
years since we had spoken.
It was a numb feeling and all the abandonment
issues I had overcome, “tried” to come back, the
feelings of being unloved, the feelings of, should
I have done more to be loved? The main feeling
was: not knowing how I should feel.
The following weeks I had messages from the
divine that were too strong to ignore although
I tried to. The negative angels on my shoulder
would say to me: Vikki, you never had a
relationship with your mother, so why are you
qualified to do this? Your relationship with your
daughter is good but you are not soul sisters.
Who are you to deliver this message to the world?
The more I tried to hide these callings, the
stronger they became. I would also say to
myself: Vikki, you have massive success, you have
multiple properties, you have businesses, you
have passive income, you have an amazing family
and you run events for women entrepreneurs,
what more do you want? Even my family and
friends said the same.
The deeper I went within, the stronger the
knowing became, that this is my purpose.
This is my mission in life.
This is why I have experienced all the
hardship, pain and failures in the past.
This is why I was so driven.
This is why I became a business person.
This is why my path totally changed.
These were all lessons, I had so many lessons.
I have always invested in my personal education,
growth and development but this time I knew
I had to ramp this up to make a difference to
my message, my delivery, my teachings. So, I
commissioned some of the best teachers and
leaders in the world to guide me. I surrendered
to the process. And this was the big start to the
Mother & Daughter Incorporated Workshops
and Events.
I decided to sell all my properties, sell or close all of
the businesses and align myself with my mission,
my purpose. This is not just a fad! This is not just a
whim. This is what I am dedicating my life to. I am
so blessed to have such a supportive husband,
even though he doesn't truly understand what I
am doing he is fully backing me. Which I thank
God for, because if he didn’t, I would have done it
anyway, but this has bonded us to infinity.
So, Mother and Daughter Events & Workshops is
to bond mothers and daughters to infinity, and
to make massive successes and abundance in
a harmonious way. Because what I know to be
true is when you find you, when the girls find
themselves then success and money is easier to
attract. I will follow this process at the events with
my daughter as well.
This is what I am
dedicating my
life to
to overcome my blockages and barriers from my
childhood. The need to always push and prove to
others that I was worthy.
Every cell in my body vibrates when I think about
it. I could take over the whole magazine sharing
with you the teachings and sharing which goes
on, but in a nutshell, it is all to do with both
mothers and daughters understanding that we
are all different, we all have our own callings
and wishes and wants. We all are destined to
be strong, healthy, happy, abundant but society
and fear get in our way. It is also because we are
“coded” by our parents and ancestors.
AND the most important thing for me, and I hope
you, is knowing that if I don`t recode myself, then
in turn, recode my daughter then it all shifts to
future generations. I am doing this work for my
grandchildren and beyond.
What is recoding I hear you ask? So here is a very
simple analogy but believe me this goes so much
deeper.
I used to ask myself: Why do my children know
all the words to Abba (and that is not since the
new Abba Mania came out!) and to George
Michael songs? Music way before their time, and
it is because it’s what they experienced in their
childhood and their upbringing.
What they hear, what they experience as a child
is all coded into subconscious memory.
So, if happy memories like music are stored
there, what else is?
What else is stored there that we are not really
aware of?
The teachings are so powerful, I have used them
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