Business Fit Magazine Special Editions Mother & Daughter Special Edition | Page 10

Unhappy memories, memories we have blocked?
Is it all happy, like music?
Or is it:
Fear.
Limited Beliefs.
Not being good enough.
Lack of love.
Violence. Money success
This is something I never, ever thought about
until I went deep in this self-discovery area with
world class leaders. with grace and
Society has changed with the generations. In
some generations, if you were bad, you were
beaten, even in schools. I remember having the
slipper and the ruler in my catholic school and
when I got home, I got it again. If you were good,
you weren’t good enough. Society, especially in
this generation, is fuelled by social media and the
fear of not being good enough, always trying to
prove to others, always trying to fit in.
All I ask you as you are reading this is to think
deeply….as many of us don’t, because we are too
busy hustling….for success, for money flow, for
signification. Like I was.
I pray that you take the time to think about this!
In relation to Alisha, my daughter, I was
subconsciously adamant that she had what I
didn't.
She is now 15, goes to a lovely private cathedral
school and mostly gets what she desires. Don`t
get me wrong, she is not spoiled, she has an
allowance and saves and looks after her money.
We have nice holidays and often and she doesn’t
need for anything, (wanting however is a different
matter!) I started to teach her the ropes to
success in my businesses where she has worked
in the past and many times we have clashed. She
is a true “mini me”, very much has the personality
of what I was like. She is VERY independent, she
is headstrong, she is driven, she is dedicated to
her friends, she loves sports, she is kind, she is
honest, and she is very sensitive. I look at her and
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and abundance
can flow to you
ease
will follow in my footsteps and I don’t want her
to struggle and make a hard time of creating
success like I did. When you have the right tools
and mindset, success can be easy. Trust me.
As her mum I love her deeply with every cell in
my body. As I do my son, who is 17 now and
very bright doing Business Studies, Physics and
Statistics at Sixth Form College. Many have asked
me why mums and daughters and not sons. My
answer to that is, I don't know. It was my calling,
my download to do it this way and I know that
when the shifts are made within me and my
daughter the shifts are also made throughout
my whole family.
My journey now is to honestly guide, lead,
nurture, love and support mums and daughters
across the whole globe. I do not do this for free,
I have spent many years doing events, coaching
and training and from experience I know, people
do not appreciate ‘free’. That is a FACT! I want my
daughter to understand the difference between
investment and expense. She knows how much
I spend on my education and thinks I am mad,
until she experiences this for herself, she will not
understand fully.
FINALLY, it is my heartfelt promise to anyone who
attends my events that your life will never be the
same again.
And please remember, you can live the life of
grace, flow, ease and abundance you truly desire.
I am very proud of her.
But I also see limited beliefs, self-doubt, lack of
inner self-love and always wanting to fit in. (even
though she wouldn’t agree with me!) I see the
younger version of me.
I see it in many of her friends as well. I see anger
in some of them, although I don't see it in Ali. I am
now able to be aware of and shift any self-doubt
or limiting belief that comes into my space. I wish
to share these teachings with my daughter.
BE AWARE OF IT – CATCH IT – RECODE IT –
DISSOLVE IT
My journey now is to honestly
guide, lead, nurture, love and
support mums and daughters
I know that one of the big reasons for me creating
these events is to grow and bond Ali and I along
the way, as well as many others out there. I truly
believe that my mother is my guardian angel
supporting me with this.
I also know that Alisha will be massively successful
in her own right and she will do that in a way that
is easier, with more grace, with more flow and
more ease. Not the way I did it - pushing, proving,
sacrificing, hustling, you get the picture.
If I do not get the opportunity to support Alisha in
re-coding her DNA away from my previous coding
and ancestral coding, then I truly believe that she
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