Business Fit Magazine October 2019 Issue 2 | Page 50
Mindset & Emotion
How many of you have seen the
worst day of your life turn out
to be the best day of your life?
I want you to see how in fact what you did and
what they did, turned out to be positive. List
down how it served you and them and find that
positive until you are grateful for that situation
and person. Your mind may struggle to show the
positive side, but you must keep going until it is
resolved and you see the beauty in the resolution.
We should learn from our
experiences not be trapped by
them.
Why have I come up with this conclusion?
Well, it’s something I have learnt through various
seminars, books and personal experiences - my
own and others I have coached. The people I
meet who are not joyful and generally play the
victim role, who struggle through the challenges
life has to throw at them have not resolved the
relationship they had with their parents.
Most of the issues we face as
adults, can be traced back to
incidents from our childhood.
I had a client who was having a major problem
in selling her products. She just couldn’t close
the deal. She found it impossible to isolate their
objections and therefore couldn’t address the
problem and consequently froze. I soon found
out this inability to isolate her client’s objections
went back to her childhood when her parents
would prioritise spending money on their home
rather than on her. Back then she was unable
to articulate the problem and felt rejected and
unloved and carried it on into her life.
She was susceptible to the trigger and reverting
back, frozen and unable to know why she was not
overcoming this block. Left to avoid situations like
this and ultimately making her business suffer.
All from a decision, a little girl had made.
It has been known for many, many years that
problems in our childhood manifest their way
into our adulthood. Often causing us great pain,
the ability to identify in a client where this pain
comes from is something that I have been able
to recognise successfully.
How big are you willing to
dream? What does it look like?
The two fears that keep you from this are:
1.
The fear of not being loved
2.
The fear of being rejected
Which then asks the questions Am I enough? Am
I worthy?
The biggest problem is we tend to set our goals
too low.
Plant an acorn in the ground and a beautiful
oaktree will grow higher and higher and reach
the sky, but if you put the acorn in a pot there’s
only so much growing that can be achieved.
The same applies to us. Without the foundations,
we can never grow!
What I do is help you find that space to grow. To
unlearn behaviours, beliefs and other limitations
you have carried unconsciously for many years.
Knowing who you are, what you are and why you
are is what is the meaning of life.
“Shoot for the moon, if you miss we will fall among
the stars” Les Brown
Visibility has never been easier!
Social media has allowed us to express ourselves
in the most amazing way, but it has to be
respected.
There are too many people using this incredible
tool in many negative ways.
Say goodbye to your comfort zone and look into
your inner greatness.
We all have the capacity to be great, we all have
a voice which should be heard. I want you to take
a deep breath and reach inside yourself and
commit to a Facebook live.
There can be no fear in this, only an expression
of belief and joy. I leave you with this thought. I
love my work. It has become an affirmation for
my life.
Wake Up, Go Big & Live Extraordinarily.
Peace and love,
Alex Roseman is an Award-Winning International Speaker, Breakthrough
50
Coach & Best Selling Author. From down and out to speaking for the world’s
largest seminar promoting company representing leading names in personal
development including Tony Robbins. He lives to inspire, teach and show
anyone what is possible.
www.alexroseman.com - [email protected]