Interview
What is the process of
independence?
It is not possible to suddenly break from being
dependent and become a great A-player
in a team. The process of gaining your own
independence is about knowing who you
are, what your mission is, which abilities and
skills you want to develop. It is about the
quality of your decision- making, your actions
and as a result, your quality of life. The tools
I mentioned before, like financial education,
coaching, entrepreneurship, networking, etc.
can only make this quality better.
And that’s what the Independent Women
community and Summit as an event is all
about. It is open to people from all over the
world, and travels from country to country
to raise the awareness of women, despite
cultural, traditional and mental differences.
And yes, this year we are in the Middle East.
It’s a Women summit, but what
about men?
These days there are lots of men who support
the women-empowerment industry and we
have some men as speakers and participants.
Of course it is also important for men to grow
and learn as well, it’s all about collaboration
and mutual support. However, wouldn’t you
agree that women are more vulnerable and
face more challenges, especially in the modern
world?
We are born full of knowledge, wisdom,
intuition and understanding of our role on this
planet. But somewhere between childhood
and adulthood, we lose that. We become
empty, stressed, self-critical, and, as a result
hate other women, constantly comparing
ourselves, becoming greedy and lose our way.
People call it ‘a play of hormones’. But in
reality, it is the result of years of suppression,
misunderstanding, discrimination and playing
a secondary role in society.
If we come from the same Source and are really
universally connected to each other, all the
hardships our ancestors went through, all the
unfair attitudes our great, great grandmothers
endured, imprints on our consciousness,
behaviour and life, usually without us even
being aware of it.
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What do you see as the
difficulties for women to
achieve independence?
I was born into an Asian family, and my parents
were the most loving and caring, but still as a
woman I had a specific life-model to live by and
that contained limitations.
As a result, I was not always allowed to self-
actualise and discover all my talents. I had to get
a profession and build a career which sounded
good to others. not for myself; have my own
family, based on specific assumptions and
expectations. There was always an element of
suppression and unrealised dreams.
A more extreme example, which is still relevant
today, in many Asian families, women are
forced to have an abortion if they find out
they are expecting a girl. We, as women, not
yet born, are already ‘unwelcome’ in this world,
unwanted and not even allowed to live. Yet
who gives life in this world? Who has such
strong inner power they can heal, nurture and
ease pain? Who is the source of beauty and
grace? Who turns a collection of stones into
a warm and cosy place called home? Who,
without saying a word, can inspire, motivate,
but also destroy? And this is only a short list.
This phenomenon is called WOMAN.
In order to point all her abilities, gifts and
creativity in a positive direction; to shift the
collective consciousness and mindset of
the future generations into greatness and
in general make this world a better place to
be, we need to allow ourselves to discover
our independence as a woman. We need
to
constantly grow through knowledge,
acceptance and forgiveness, and learn how to
genuinely support each other, respect each
other and build a healthy environment around
us.
What will women learn from
the summit?
Our amazing speakers will help attendees learn
about new business opportunities, how to add
additional income streams or increase their
current income; find new strategies to build
their way to financial freedom. We will teach
them how to get the mindset of a champion
to succeed in any area of life, as well as show
them ways to unleash their inner power and
We need to
constantly
grow through
knowledge,
acceptance and
forgiveness
take control of emotions to achieve greatness,
a way to achieve more happiness, wealth and
health in life and achieve more awareness of
their mission and purpose, by tuning into their
true self. It is also an opportunity to spend a
great day networking with like-minded people
How can people join the
summit?
If people want to become part of more than just
a community, and be involved in a movement
of independent, fulfilled and supportive
women who lead, work and build relationships
with grace, they are very welcome to join us
the Independent Women Summit, which takes
place on 9 November, 2019 at the Hilton Dubai
Jumeirah, tickets are available from http://
independentwomensummit.com/#tickets
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www.independentwomensummit.com
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