Business Fit Magazine January 2020 Issue 1 | Page 46

Interview For our first magazine of the new decade, we interview Verónica Sosa, the founder of Business Fit Magazine and SHE (Seminario Hispanas Emprendedoras), giving our readers a deeper insight to this inspirational speaker, entrepreneur and author. Who are you? I am the founder and publisher of SHE (Seminario Hispanas Emprendedoras) and Business Fit Magazine and to begin this New Year, this new decade, allow me to take the opportunity to tell you, our readers, a little more about myself. I am gradually learning to know and accept myself, with all my lights and shadows, the good and the not so good aspects, as they are all part of the sentimental and idealistic person who I am. I Iove seeing the kindness and the good features in people. I am aware of my gift of social intelligence and apply this skill to my business life as well. The transformation all started upon finding a mentor and my newfound awareness allowed me to look at myself as a whole person. I became more conscious of my strengths and weaknesses and the first task accomplished was to stop fighting with my weaknesses. This freed up plenty of the powerful energy required to work on transforming myself into a more balanced, complete version of me. I was a dreamer, now I am a visionary and I know that women are capable of leading in every area of life they wish to lead in. I love so many things about my life, especially being a mother to my daughter Laura who is 11 years old now. From Dreamer to Visionary I love the challenge of being a conscious wife, working on my relationship every day and a couple of other things about me - I love Mexican food and I adore dancing! What is the biggest mistake you have made in business and what you did you learn from it? I believe the only real mistakes we make are the ones that we don’t learn from. I have made plenty of mistakes and in learning from them, I have more chance to avoid repeating them. I am an intuitive person. Sometimes it looks as if I am 46 impulsive, but I have my inner structure and I am so lucky to have amazing mentors around me who I can access and learn from. Mistakes in my life do not remain mistakes for long. I can fall and I can see my growth, how I am becoming wiser in my every day life, personally and in business. One of my mottos is “enjoy continuous learning in life”. There is one particularly unfortunate situation I went through while focussing more on my weakness than on my strength. I hired a person to work with me, thinking she was better than me in certain areas. I started this relationship focussed on my weaknesses and not as the whole professional woman I am. Unfortunately rather than contributing balance, she caused chaos by trying to disempower me, focusing on my weaknesses to create more power for herself. Fortunately, I caught it in time and managed to minimize the damage and change the situation. I wonder how often in our lives we let others disempower us and take advantage. Once again, I had a mentor who helped me to see this in time and get out of the situation as soon as possible. Don’t hesitate to ask for help if you find yourself in a situation like this. Earlier on, you mentioned balance as an important personal quality. How do you achieve it? Remember I told you I am an idealistic person, so of course I want balance in my life. Some days I feel it in my skin and in my smile and on other days, I feel balance is far away. However, I know when I’m feeling balanced and what I understand today is that each one of us has a different balance. I achieve it more easily when I stop thinking that there is only one way to achieve it, when I let go from forcing the issue. I have learned that balance depends on our personality type, our vision and our purpose in life. Balance is unique to each of us. I do my best to sleep well, eat well and frequently connect with nature. I love to spend time with my family and, as I travel a lot, I always try and find the time to enjoy some extra treats on those trips. I have friends all over the world who bring me a lot of joy when I see and connect with them again. I am blessed with a loving family and just thinking of them helps me breathe more deeply. 47