Business Fit Magazine January 2019 Issue 1 | Page 45

The power of being visible without feeling that I am bragging has been one of the most difficult challenges for me as a Latina raised in a small neighbourhood of the Dominican Republic. The power to become radiantly visible without feeling that others are going to judge me or feel threatened by my achievements or talent. Perhaps it is the feeling of making a fool of myself and maintaining the instilled clear intention of being what they call a submissive “good girl”, one that never attracts too much attention and is respectful of authority figures. A large number of women, specifically within minority and ethnic groups, or an immigrant like myself coming from another country, will have to face this constant struggle of self- validation, shyness, and the famous imposter syndrome. Which makes us believe that we are not deserving of our successes and that all the good that happens to us is merely a stroke of luck or a divine coincidence. Well, times have changed and as a professional Latina woman who lives with the need to move up professionally, I dare to own responsibility for my professional visibility. Hard work is not always the most effective formula for most of us Latina women. Statistics confirm that the vast majority of people in positions of power promote and mentor other people who look and relate to them physically and culturally. This is not a trend or even planned, it is a natural response to the normal course of humanity which prefers to be surrounded by and work with people who look like them and come from the same origin, social class, city, etc. So, my dear amiga, it is your duty and responsibility to become your own agent of promotion, to create your own professional visibility, and strategise a plan. This does not necessarily mean that you will become a self- centred and obnoxious human being, you will only start doing what others have done for generations: take control of your future and your career. It is time to start applying the following principles to have an easier path into becoming visible. “I Don’t Care if You Judge Me”: If you are a woman who stands out in any area and are successful, intelligent, attractive, financially stable, or an authority in your field or line of work, there is already a very high possibility that you are the victim of others' judgments and criticisms. Therefore, your focus should be your own personal development and evolution. It's time to make your presence known. Begin to post and publish, lose the fear of mentioning who you are and do so in meetings and social media. Exhibit your contribution to the company or your own personal brand as a professional in your chosen industry or field. "Calladita, Beautiful”: You Look More This popular phrase might be responsible for the fact that millions of women are not taken into consideration at the time of promotions, benefits, bonuses, and professional opportunities. You must be ready to speak up and have a voice, that does not necessarily mean creating conflicts, rather finding out what requirements are needed for that promotion they did not give you or why your annual bonus was lower this year than previous ones. These questions are part of what we call “Healthy Noise”, a noise which will give you the power to be visible and send a clear message that the least of your concerns are being beautiful or keeping quiet. It is your duty and responsibility to become your own agent of promotion 45