Business Fit Magazine August 2017 Issue 1 | Page 52

50 Article For honor also means being an adult and assuming your responsibilities. Opening to our own inner honor requires an interesting mix of strength and sensitivity and is an ideal way, specially for us men, to start generating empathy towards others. It also is an ideal tool to do business effectively, since it cuts through a lot of crap and allows for negotiations to be quick and straight. But even more importantly, it is a path towards allowing our hearts to open so that compassion can begin flowing from it, for compassion, the sharing of others’ suffering, requires a massive amount of inner strength. And finally it is a tool for claiming responsibility for our actions towards others, whether it be family, business partners or simple strangers. Many times our actions will be mistaken, of course, but honor also means having the humility to accept our mistakes and take corrective actions. In all of these aforementioned ways, Honor becomes a true spiritual path to be manifested in the world. In this sense I wish I could say I am the most honorable guy around. I am not. But I try hard allow honor to flow from my heart and into all aspects of my life. I will end by saying that, as a businessman, I have discovered that, more unwittingly than not, I have been following in my father’s footsteps. My partners trust me and, in the same way, I completely trust my partners, and many times I have made deals just with a handshake. I only do business with people who, in some form or another, adhere to a strong inner code of values and thus, like my father, I (mostly) do not need written contracts to strike a deal. Of course sometimes contracts are needed, but even in those occasions it is easy to negotiate because there is never a doubt in my mind that, whether it be on paper or just with a handshake, the wisest and honorable choice is always to go for the win-win solution. And this makes my life very simple! Guillermo Rickens Artist/photographer/drummer www.BusinessFitMagazine.com