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do anything. Those traditional satis were so from birth. They did
not have a blemish as far as sex was concerned. And, for you
the blemishes of sexual misconduct of this life remain and therefore
you have to attain liberation by becoming a man again in the
next life. Everything ends right here when one becomes a sati.
All the women who become satis attained liberation directly.
Can you understand this a little? You will have to become a sati,
pure, to attain moksha. Otherwise you will have to come back
as a man.
Questioner: Yes. Therefore it is not a fact that a woman
would remain as a woman for a long time in multiple lives. But
because the women do not know this knowledge and solution,
they are lost.
Dadashri: If the solution happens then a woman is a
man really. These poor women do not understand this tuber of
sexuality and deceit within them which is part of their nature.
And in matters of sexuality they have a lot of interest. They
derive pleasure from it. And they remain stuck in sexuality. No
one knows the subtle way out and no one shows the way out.
Only the satis know it. Apart from her husband, she never
thinks of anyone else. If her husband dies suddenly or goes
away, even then she would not. To her, he is the only husband.
All the deceit of these satis dissolves.
People suspect their daughters who are just going out to
school. They even suspect their own wives. These types of
treacheries exist. Isn’t there treachery even in the homes today?
In this kaliyug there is treachery in one’s own home. Kaliyug
means the time of treachery. There is nothing but deceit and
treachery. For what gratification do they do all this? Even that
is senseless and done in gross unawareness.
Questioner : What adjustments does one have to make
where tubers of suspicion have already been formed in one’s
mind ?