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Brahmcharya
of a sexual nature towards anyone else except your wife must
not exist. If such errors happen they must cleansed instantly
with frequent pratikramans. This, for this era, I define as
brahmacharya. Why? It is because he remains within his bounds
of his rightful sexuality. Such a married brahmachari will eventually
understand that even such sex with his wife is a grave mistake
and he will let go of his right of sex with his wife.
[2] Sexual Transactions By The Sexual Look
These days everything has become like an open free
market of sex, has it not? At the end of the day it may seem
that you have not done any trading in sex, but this is not so. The
inner sexual look is trading for sure. It happens without your
awareness. This inner sexual trade of twelve or fourteen
transactions has happened just by seeing them. This would not
happen if our Gnan awareness were present. You will see the
pure Soul within a woman passing by, but how can others see
that?
If we’ve gone to somebody’s wedding, do you not see
a lot of attractive human beings of both sexes? Would you not
have made about a hundred sexual transactions without your
knowledge. That is how it is all. It is not your fault. This happens
to all the human beings. They are drawn to anything attractive.
It happens to both, women and men. A transaction is made as
soon as they see anything attractive.
It is possible to eradicate these sexual impulses and
transactions with the right intellect, even in the absence of Gnan.
I had done so with my intellect. People remain uncontrolled in
sexuality because of lack of right intellect.
[3] The Horrors Of Illicit Sex
If you are living a married life, you may indulge in sex that
is rightfully yours and never even think about that which is not