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disguised with a silk cloth. It is the refuse that you do not like,
that is wrapped in a silk cloth. Do you not think so? If you only
realize this then you will experience apathy towards sexual
desires. People do not realize this and that is why this world
continues the way it does. Do any of the ladies have such
awareness? What would you find when you peel a good-
looking man?
What would you find in a well-groomed and dressed
man, when you cut him open? Ladies deluded with illusion of
sexuality do not see this and hence they are overwhelmed by his
good looks. I can see clearly through him.
Women should not look at men with sexual intent and
vice versa, because they are of no use to you. What is there to
see in what Dada calls a refuse?
The rule of attraction is that attraction occurs towards
only certain person, the attraction does not occur with everyone.
Now, I will tell you what causes this attraction.
If no sexual attraction occurs in this life, yet when you see
a certain young man and you feel, ‘This man is so handsome,
he is so good looking’. Then you have instantly sown a seed for
your next life. With this, sexual attraction will occur in your
next life.
Nischaya means that you do not need to be reminded of
it. It is simply there. It is your state. It remains as the foundation
of your awareness, ‘I am pure Soul’. The relative circumstances
unfolding in front of you may make it seem that you have
forgotten it, but no, it is there. That is nischaya.
Inner visual contemplation (niddidhyasan) occurs the
moment you think, ‘This woman is good looking or this man is
good looking’. It lasts that long. Then one becomes that.
Therefore, this problem arises only when you look, does it not?