30 Brahmcharya
say the same. That is why I was saying that tomorrow morning you would run away. What is the reason for this? How can you trust the one who is dictated by his mind?
Questioner: Now, I would not run away from here.
Dadashri: Oh, but what guarantee is there that a man who is governed by his mind will not run away from here? Here, if I scold you for two days, then you would leave on the third day. You do know this. How can you trust your mind?
At the moment your mind helps you by telling you:‘ It is not worth getting married, there are too many problems in marriage’. It is your mind that first shows you this principle, which you have decided through your mind and not through Gnan. It is the mind that showed you the principle to do this.
Questioner: If the firm decision was made through Gnan, then the mind would not go against you, would it?
Dadashri: No, it would not. The foundation for firm decisions( nischaya) made through Gnan is different. All their foundations are like R. C. C( reinforced cement concrete) while the others like those made by the mind are like those made out of mixture of gravel and concrete( non reinforced) which are prone to crack.
[ 6 ]‘ One’ Should Scold Oneself
Look this man has severely reprimanded his self, threatened his self. It was worth seeing how he was scolding his self and crying at the same time.
Questioner: Once, I reprimanded Chandresh two or three times, and made him cry too. He also told‘ me’ that this would not happen again and yet it happens.
Dadashri: Yes, that will happen but you have to keep