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say the same . That is why I was saying that tomorrow morning you would run away . What is the reason for this ? How can you trust the one who is dictated by his mind ?
Questioner : Now , I would not run away from here .
Dadashri : Oh , but what guarantee is there that a man who is governed by his mind will not run away from here ? Here , if I scold you for two days , then you would leave on the third day . You do know this . How can you trust your mind ?
At the moment your mind helps you by telling you : ‘ It is not worth getting married , there are too many problems in marriage ’. It is your mind that first shows you this principle , which you have decided through your mind and not through Gnan . It is the mind that showed you the principle to do this .
Questioner : If the firm decision was made through Gnan , then the mind would not go against you , would it ?
Dadashri : No , it would not . The foundation for firm decisions ( nischaya ) made through Gnan is different . All their foundations are like R . C . C ( reinforced cement concrete ) while the others like those made by the mind are like those made out of mixture of gravel and concrete ( non reinforced ) which are prone to crack .
[ 6 ] ‘ One ’ Should Scold Oneself
Look this man has severely reprimanded his self , threatened his self . It was worth seeing how he was scolding his self and crying at the same time .
Questioner : Once , I reprimanded Chandresh two or three times , and made him cry too . He also told ‘ me ’ that this would not happen again and yet it happens .
Dadashri : Yes , that will happen but you have to keep