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ever since they got married. They quarrel on one hand and
continue to have sex with each other on the other hand. That
is why I have said that both should take the vow of brahmacharya,
and then your life would be of the highest quality. All the fights
are for selfish reasons. She knows that he is not going to go
anywhere away from her. He too knows that she is not going
to go away from him. Thus the relationship survives only to
serve each other’s selfish needs. Everything remains, the fights
and the sex, unchanged.
Misery of dependency on sex is greater than the transient
happiness derived from it. When one realizes this, he will be
free from the false infatuation and vice grip of sex. It is then only
that he would impress females. Otherwise they feel that they
can play with him through the medium of sexuality. The impression
of this nature gradually leads to an aura of awe and respect.
Thereafter they leave him alone. Otherwise, even the greatest of
spiritual men in this world have suffered at the hands of women
and their sexual ploy. Only the vitarags, the liberated ones have
understood this, as is. It is because of their aura of purity that
women stayed away from them. Otherwise women carry so
much power that they can make any man helplessly subordinate
to them in no time. This is the nature, sexual character of women.
You must stay away from women. You must not try and deceive
them otherwise you yourself will come under their deception.
And this web of misery has been happening for many lives.
When a woman pushes her husband around and scolds
him repeatedly, what is the reason behind it? It is because the
man is deeply passionate about sexual gratification. Woman
does not push him around just because she feeds him food; she
does so because of sex. No woman would push a man around
if he were not interested in sex. She takes advantage of this
weakness but if there were no weakness, she would not be able
to bother him in any manner. Women are very deceitful and men