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Brahmcharya
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Dadashri : Yes, it is the law of karma that is working,
nothing else. It is not the fault of the man; it is the karma that
makes him spin. But suspicion will kill him for no reason.
Therefore, whoever wants peace regarding the sexual
conduct of his wife, he should marry an ugly woman so that no
one would have sexual impulses towards her. No one will be
willing to keep her. And she herself would say, ‘No one would
keep me. It is just this husband that I have found who would
keep me’. That is why she would remain very sincere to you.
Otherwise, if she were beautiful, people would enjoy her with
sexual looks. If she is pretty, people will look at her with sexual
intentions. When I see a man who marries a beautiful woman,
I think what would happen to the poor man!
A man would forget God if his wife is very beautiful,
would he not? And if the husband were very handsome, the wife
would forget God. That is why everything in moderation is good.
These people are such that wherever they see a ‘hotel’
(place of sexual gratification), they would ‘eat’ (enjoy). So it is
not worth being suspicious, in this world. Suspicions cause pain
and heartaches. Both, women and men, ‘eat’ whenever they
see a ‘hotel’.
Men and women teach each other a lesson in sexuality,
but women win at the end because men do not have deceit in
them. That is why women deceive men.
When sincerity and morality was present, the worldly life
was worth living. Today there is tremendous amount of deceit.
No man would go back to his wife if I revealed everything
about his wife. I know everything about everyone but I never
say or do anything about it. Man is often disloyal, but a woman
is the factory of deceit. The museum of deceits exists not
anywhere else, except in a woman.