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Intimacy demands knowledge of your spouse‘s special
features and how it works, where to apply certain
tricks and touch.
Don‘t get stuck to one style of romance and love making with your spouse. Slowly but surely you will get
your spouse to accept and flow along in your new discovery.
Shun comparing.
The marriage bed is a special place for pleasure and
satisfaction between married couples. It's not necessary
talking about a bed where a couple sleep together on
since there are many married couples who sleep together on one bed but are never together. Some have

Don‘t ever compare him or her with the people from
your past in anyway. Concentrate on this one and
make the most of each moment on that bed. Celebrate him and her possibly exaggerate your love and
care for your spouse.

even stopped making love to each other, they only re-

Every love making session is an event either a quickie
or a marathon rounds

tire on that bed after the day job and some come back

Appreciate his and her body all time .

to that bed because they are already used to sleeping
on that bed.

He brought me into the banquet hall,
and he looked at me lovingly.

The marriage bed is a place for intimacy and bonding

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between couples. On the marriage bed lots of transparency is expected and experienced. In a world where
people are never contented with having just one type
of meal, in a system where people want to have a taste
of something that's not theirs, a lot of people love to
experiment, therefore it is a call to married couples to
make their marriage bed unique.
How can you make your marriage bed unique?
The Lily among the Thorns and the Apple Tree in the
Forest Chapman‘s language of love
Deal with boredom by
Studying your own spouse to know what turns him or
her on. What ignites fire in your spouse? What annoys
your spouse these are character traits we need to

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Sustain me with raisin cakes;
refresh me with apples,
for I am faint with love.
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His left hand caresses my head,
and his right hand stimulates me. Song of Solomon
Decorate and make your marriage bed welcoming for
your spouse
Make sure you settle all differences but not on the
bed.
Make your marriage bed a place of excitement, pleasure and satisfaction.
Finally. Don‘t forget that Jesus is the silent listener in
every conversation.
Don't leave Him out of the going on your marriage
bed.