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gadgets within our reach that make the attention span shorter and
shorter? Do you think technology has affected our communication style
in marriage? If yes, is it positive, negative or both?
Aity: There is no doubt that there is so much to gain from technology
and social media but discipline is needed, if not, the very ugly will
come out of the good that the media is supposed to serve. One day, I
observed to my husband that if a couple doesn't have a solid foundation in their marriage, social media can very easily tear them apart. Because you find spouses who are more prone to chatting on social media
than with their spouse. This weakens the bond in relationships and
before you know it, the two people who were so madly in love have
grown apart. Unfortunately, with time, attachment to social media can
become an addiction. You find that one could wake up and instead of
having a quiet time with their spouse as before, the first thing is to pick
up the