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NuRa: What I mean is it’s all about perspective, People choose to focus on different things. Sometimes we choose to focus on something that hurts us and stay in that space and sometimes we look at it from another perspective like what was the lesson in this experience? Speaking from my own personal experience as a child I was molested multiple times and it was actually kind of a family ritual or a family curse because it went for generations and generations. I was the one who was able to be in space where I could say I can allow to to happen to other generations, to my nieces and allow it to go on or I could speak up about it.

Shevvy Malibu: I’m glad you were able to move through that trauma and heal yourself. I saw you wrote that women need to heal themselves in so they can heal others. So how do they do that?

"There are two kinds of people, people that are hurting and people that are healing.”

NuRa: That’s kind of complex actually. There was study done by a Dr. David Hawkins where he says we can measure our physical vibrations while we are here in this body. Like 0 being dead and 1000 being Jesus,Christ, Buddha, Universal consciousness. Basically people have been able to heal themselves from diseases and serious illnesses simply changing their thought patterns and their diet and the way that they eat. Just by shifting their way of life and raising their vibrations. Now it’s said that once your vibration is 500 or above which is love or able. Actually there is awebsite you can visit called loveorabove.com But once your vibration is at love or above you are eble to heal not only yourself but people in your immediate circle. Like hundreds of people. When you are living your truth and that vibration when you are living love you are healing exponentially. When you are that higher vibration there is no way for people around you to stay on lower vibration or in a negative mindset and if hey do they usually just fall out of your life. Because there’s no way for them to comfortably be in your surroundings. The people around will naturally shift. I feel women are a huge influence on our men and children. We have such power in our homes and communities, so if we are constantly healing ourselves, people around have no choice but to be better.

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