Bossy! Magazine Issue 20 September/October 2017 | Page 20

Heartbreak, debilitating

yet curable!

I started this post many times over the past few weeks. I was stuck somewhere between, is this one of those posts that should remain in my journal locked away for an eternity or a post that I should share with whomever chooses to read it. By now you’ve guessed I’m no longer stuck.

Have you ever experienced heartbreak? I have more than once. Guess what? You can and will recover if you choose to be happy, keep an open mind and believe true love still exists.

Heartbreak is such a debilitating condition although temporary for most, the affects of this condition could potentially destroy you.

BY Traci Hinds

That is of course, if you allow the hurt to seep deep into your soul and permanently take up residence. You have to choose not to let the heartbreak win. Decide not to allow this potentially debilitating condition to take over your life. Do not fixate or dwell on the whys, what went wrong, should have, would have, could have or the maybe ifs. (That is of course if you were true and gave your all.) The reality is, dwelling on these things no longer matter. Stay in reality! What you thought you had and or wanted is no longer. When I am faced with heartbreak my choice is to not allow the breaker and the breaking of my heart to break me.