WOMEN
“Don’t try to understand
men. You never will”
W
hat gals need to know about guys.
Don't try to understand men, you never will
Men have a different DNA. You may wonder
that had I been in his place, I would be sensitive, I'd have
expressed myself, but guys just don't talk. You have to
understand that they are a different species altogether.
Just like one can't understand the language of a tiger, a
snake, a lion, in the same manner you'll never be able to
understand why they do, what they do.
Don't ever believe that you can change them
Women believe they can change their guy but remember you can't and you shouldn't. So when you fall in love
with someone, understand this is it and you have to live
life with whatever it is. You cannot change that person
ever.
Never blame a lover
Women turn stupid once they get into a relationship.
Our brains stop working. We take all decisions from the
heart. We can give good advice to our friends but when
it comes to ourselves, we fail because our brains turn
jelly. Our hormones go haywire. That's why we should
not trust our decisions when it comes to a relationship.
But you can't blame a lover. A lover will do stupid things.
So forgive yourself for that.
Look after your guy like a mother
Guys are silly. They need you to take care of them just
as a mother without making it obvious. If you make it
evident, it irritates them. They are not very expressive;
suddenly they will leave you surpised by a word or a
gesture. You have to continue doing what you do quietly.
Guys hate to be told what to do
I know this because I'm a very good girlfriend. 'I told you
to do this, why didn't you do it?' They detest such talk.
Also, men can't stand women who are disrespectful to
them specially in front of other people, whether you are
a girlfriend or a wife. A certain distance creeps in. You
should not be disrespectful to your man, even in a joke.
They are extremely sensitive. I also did it earlier and
that's why I know it shouldn't be done.
"Yes, I've been madly in love"
Q. If your man were to fall in love with someone else,
what would you do?
I would let him go. You can't control people you love.
You can't control who you fall in love with. You could
be cursed with falling in love with somebody who loves
someone else. But if you can't have love, it doesn't
mean he shouldn't have it either. I believe people who
love each other should be together. If there's no love,
they should not be together. If you love someone and
he loves someone else, kya aap usse pakad ke rakhoge
jail mein? You may not be able to control your emotions,
you may cry, cry and cry. But you can't hold on to some-
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