BOOM March Issue 16 | Page 44

MEN’S Be The Man Every Woman Wants T he art of attracting women is something not everyone can master. It doesn’t take too long for a woman to judge you beyond the well-rehearsed demeanour you put forth. She knows precisely how much of it is pretense. Behaving like a man and being a real one are two very different things. The guy who gets all the women is just a notch above you. That position isn’t unattainable. Becoming the man every woman wants isn’t that difficult. This is how you can claim the top spot. CHARM BY BEING YOURSELF Nothing sucks more than being someone else. Not only will you look anything but attractive, but will also end up making a fool of yourself. Many men feel that being themselves would drive women away. What you must rather work on is to stay the way you are. There is nobody as charming as a man who is sure of himself. GROW UP It is hard to hear this from a woman’s mouth, but it is something you all need to do. When you call yourself a man, look beyond your age and size. Being a man is a much deeper concept. You may be getting older but that in no way means you’re getting any wiser. Mature well with age. Women love wisdom in a man. BE PROUD, BE A MAN Do not ashamed of being a man and the hundreds of desires and drives that come associated with it. Do not fight your own nature because it will only do you more harm. From sexual instincts to killer gut feelings, as a man, you must learn to be comfortable with being a man and use it all in a positive way. Embrace yourself the way you are and the world (read girls) will follow. NEVER FOLLOW HER Seeking a woman’s approval and letting her take the lead shouts w-e-a-k. Do