BOOM Edition 3 September 2016 Issue | Page 44

MEN’S Hello, I am a man and I cheat… on my diet H ello! I am a man and I cheat on my diet. I cheat on my diet with cheese burgers, kebabs, lamb legs, mutton chops, cheese omelettes, macaroni, pastas, lasagne and deep fries. Sometimes I cheat in the day, sometimes I cheat at night. Sometimes it has been days that I have not cheated, while others I cheat many times a day. There have been incidents where I promised my wife that I am going to an office party involving nothing but salads but have ended up in a posh restaurant eating promiscuously the whole night. Do I feel guilty? Yes, I do! Every time! But there is an animal inside me that jumps at every opportunity available and makes me do things that I can’t admit to my dietician. There are many reasons why people go on a diet and health may be considered as the most important one. At one end of the spectrum, there are experts that believe the modern diet and sedentary lifestyle has made us obese. Exposure to diseases like high blood pressure, sugar, arthritis, heart attacks are at an all-time high. Healthy living and a proper exercise regime are considered to be the most important factors for living healthy. Hence came forward the multibillion dollar weight loss industry. At the other end of the spectrum, there are those who say that being too skinny has the same health hazards as being obese. There is an increasing consensus amongst nutrition experts who believe that anorexia and other eating disorders, especially amongst teenagers, are a direct result of today’s definition of beauty as “skinny in the bikini”. On the other hand, there is a counter revolution of sorts as many models display their normal bodies with confidence. Some people even believe that this definition of beauty is making us shallow and superficial. Intellectual depth, empathy, compassion, cultural sensitivity, family values, and emotional support mechanisms are being dismantled because of this inherent desire to attain the perfect set of abs and biceps. But, who we are kidding? The reason – the real reason why we sweat at the gym and swear on the dining table is not because we want to better our health, but because we want to look better. Let me make another confession here: ever since the days of Baywatch the fantastical hope of a six pack has struck a rather deep nerve. For me, six packs are somehow associated to Yasmine Bleeth, Pamela Anderson and Gena Nolin. There is a latent desire amongst men of my generation to look slim shady even if you are “doh bachon ka daddy” (a father of two). I’m sure the same goes for women as they, too, struggle to fight with the 44 | BOOM