WOMEN’S
Will You Change For A
Man?
S
ome men expect their women to change for
them but gone are the days a woman is expected to change herself. Educated and independent women have their own approach towards life.
Also, after developing an outlook towards life and getting educated, nobody would want to transform themselves for the sake of someone putting aside their real
self. Also, healthy relationships never demand changing
each other. They demand tolerating the differences between two people. So, if people around you have convinced that you must change yourself to suit your future
husband, then think again. If your man says it is a red
shirt when it is black in colour, you would not agree with
him, right? It is good to be flexible with others. But flexibility doesn't mean submissiveness. Also, choosing a
person for whom you don't need to change much would
be a wise step. When you fall in love, in the initial stages
you would feel like totally adjusting yourself for the sake
of a man but that isn't a practical idea because once the
initial attraction fades a bit, you would regret the decision for a life time. Now, look at the following examples
to know what kind of a person you are.
Example #1
You bought a dress and came home. He didn't like it.
What would you do? Would you return it to buy something that suits his taste or do you still keep it to wear it
for the ladies night out? Respecting his decision is fine,
but you can still keep your favourite dress with you instead of returning it because it was your choice.
Example #2
He expresses his opinion on which political party should
win the elections. Deep down, you know that his choice
of politician is a corrupt one. Would you sit and argue
with him to convince him or simply change your opinion? In fact, you don't need to do either. Its a waste of
time to talk about politicians. So, you silently listen and
skip the topic without agreeing with his points nor convincing him about your views.
Example #3
Your friend invites you for a party. Your man says no.
Would you still go there ignoring what your man said or
would you sacrifice your enjoyment by staying at home?
Well, there could be a middle way out. You neither need
to sacrifice your joys nor need to simply ignore your
man's words. Do what keeps you joyful without compromising the quality time you give your man. If he still feels
ignored, then the problem is with him, not you!
Example #4
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