MEN’S
Being able to talk freely in front of people without getting awkward and jittery is a skill you really need to start
developing right away. Being a smooth talker really is
one of the most underrated qualities in a man. Nothing
gets a woman more hooked on than a man who knows
how to hold conversations and express freely without
feeling shy. There’s no bigger turn off for a woman than
a man whom she just doesn’t connect with.
6. Emotionally Secure
Women want their space as much as you do. The moment they sense you’re possessive, they begin to draw
apart. A man who’s happy within himself, someone who
doesn’t need constant attention, someone who can go
on a day without talking on the phone thrice, someone
who won’t lose his mind the one time she goes out
partying with her best friends and gets drunk, someone
who has a life beyond the relationship is what women
desire. Nobody wants a partner who clings on to them
and ties them down forever.
7. Intelligence
Trust us, dumb men are the biggest turn offs. Women
are extremely fascinated with men who always have
something substantial to contribute to a conversation.
It is always interesting to listen to a man talk of his
experiences in all the countries, cities and towns he
has been to and all that he saw there. It’s true, you can
never run out of interesting conversations with intelligent people. And, that’s precisely why girls dig intelligent men.
8. Sensitivity
Women believe sensitivity is a strange concept to most
men and that is exactly why they fall head over heels
in love with a man the moment he shows his sensitive
side. They want to know the man they’re going out on
dates with isn’t a chauvinistic prick! They want to know
he knows the gravity of a situation and who is understanding and accepting towards all kinds of people.
9. Being Passionate
Women absolutely swoon over men who have a purpose in life – something they really, really love doing. It
shows there’s something to look forward to in your life,
it shows you’re crazy about something and that passion is infectious. It makes them want to be around you
more and more and just admire your zeal in life.
10. Machismo
You don’t need a ripped physique to be manly – it takes
much more than just that to be manly. She needs to
constantly feel an irresistible urge around you. Your
eyes should tell her how much you want her every
time you look at her. You need to make her feel you’re
strong enough (not just physically) to protect her. You’re
a man and you should feel like one. You need to find
the raw manliness in you and make her see it too.
11. Being Well Groomed
Yes, it is really important. Even an ‘out of bed’ or
‘scruffy beard’ look needs some basic grooming. You
need to keep yourself clean, presentable and well
groomed at all times, especially when you meet her.
Women love men who spend some time on their looks
and believe in looking good.
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