BoldlyU Magazine Issue 5 | Page 43

STRICTLY TWEENS e p o H dances in the puddles until the sun comes out again! With LOTS of support from family, friends and my counselor I am starting to understand I don’t need a guy for anything now. I am starting to accept myself for who I am and realize if I want to change anything about myself it should be for me and not a boy. I am loving myself for who I am more and more every day. I am accepting my path, and I know now that everything happens for a reason, and I am starting to understand that this is a part of who I am and it’s helping me grow stronger and stronger. I am proud that I no longer put myself down, and I’m happy. I don’t feel the urge to reveal my body to please boys. It has taken a very long time to learn how I deserve to be treated and that I need to be respected in order to be pleased with my- self. Looking back on my journey, I’m proud of the distance I have come, I now have hope for not only myself but other people that have or are going through a very rough time. No matter if I have a slip-up and get down, turn- ing to my past habits are a buried thought in my mind. I need to make people proud and live on through my lost loved ones. I strive to be successful and be the best I can be, for me. Mental abuse and illness have traumatized me, I smile at the thought of the help that has been provided, and I will continue to accept and grow from it. I continue to improve myself daily, and I have great plans for myself. A great pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do. Kennedy, 13 March 2017 43