B l i n k L i f e s t y l e s
RELATIONSHIPS
SIGNS THAT
S H O W S T H A T Y O U R
RELATIONSHIP
IS BROKEN
By Sharon Ndlovu
We tend to stay in relationships that are broken and there is nothing left , we hope and believe that someday the relationship will work out only to find out that you have wasted your time by being with someone whose already not in the relationship anymore . There are signs that shows that this relationship is over but you chose to ignore it . I ' m going to share with you few signs that are showing that the relationship is broken and it does not exist anymore .
Always busy for each other .
From the beginning you started dating your partner ; you always had time for each other . No matter how small it may be but your partner created time for you even though he / she was too busy . But as time went on , your partner started to be too busy for you for no valid reason . He / she no longer have the vibe to spend time with you . This must show you that the relationship is no more ; your partner might be giving someone the attention now more than you .
The Lack of Communication
The level of your communication has changed ; it went from high to a lower rate . At the beginning you were speaking for many hours on the phone , texting each other non-stop . Your love life was on fire but suddenly the communication drops off . Now you only talk for a minute over the phone , you text for few minutes , but you will find your partner texting for the whole night and having long hour phone calls even though you are around them . You no longer talk about the important things anymore . Even though you are around each other you don ' t talk , the only things you do is paying attention to your phones or do whatever that suits you .
No more honesty
Your relationship now comes to a point where honesty dies along the way . You don ' t tell each other the truth anymore , now your partner always make up lies just to keep you in the relationship but he / she doesn ' t make the effort of fulfilling the promises they made to you . When they make a mistake or hurt you , they don ' t try to be honest and apologize for what they did .
Losing value for your partner
As partners you come to a point where you don ' t value each other anymore , you don ' t see your partner as important as they were the first time you started to fall in love with them . Your partner is no longer special to you ; you start to compare them to some people . You make them feel less important and of less value . Most people fail to recognize this sign because they don ' t look to the matter as to why this is the way it is . If this is happening , you need to know that this is a sign that your relationship is broken and empty .
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