BIKERS CLUB MARCH 2020 ISSUE | Page 39

B I K E R S C L U B ® | www.bikersclub.in What kind of partner you should look for, if you believe you are Alpha Female... A Challenge. to handle your confidence and growth plans. Your partner should provide you with many challenges to keep you on your toes without tying up your precious time. Balance This means they shouldn't add to your workload. They should be able to challenge you, but not be challenging. They don't need to be confrontational, but they should be able to point out things that aren't going well and vice versa. Opportunity to Grow A great partner for an alpha woman is someone who gives you the space to do your own thing without fear that you are going to leave them behind. In other words, don't date guys who are super insecure and jealous. That's the last thing you need. A man needs to be able  Your man is going to have his act together. This doesn't mean he needs to be rich and has four properties around the globe, but he does need to have a job or another means to support himself. You aren't about to take on a dependant to bring down your independent lifestyle. Make sure he's got his stuff balanced and he'll add balance to yours. Give and Take Like any good relationship, each partner has to give and take at times. As an alpha, you may be used to doing your own thing, but you are capable of giving in when you need to. He also needs to be able to do that. Admitting when you are wrong, showing up for each other when it's needed and trying to find the good in the bad times is going to go a long way for you both. Confidence Your man needs confidence. Hello? Have you seen you? Have you seen your bank account? He can't be hanging around feeling bad for himself while you are out there taking on the entire world and looking like a million bucks while you are at it. Don't let his lack of self- confidence hold you back. Make sure your guy can fly on his own and is cool with you flying on your own. Trust Your guy is going to have to trust you. There's no room for ego in this relationship. You don't have time to make him feel secure, he needs to just show up feeling like you've both got this.