BIKERS CLUB MARCH 2019 ISSUE | Page 33

LOVE AND RESPECT WOMEN Not from her heart. And that's where problem arises in married life. Women are emotionally very fragile but don't misunderstand by the word fragile with weak, in fact women are stronger than men emotionally, women are like water in the vessel, the water will be as calm as the vessel will be strong. Any leakage in the vessel will not be able to save water in it. Without Respect there is no Love and any relationship without love is nothing but just lust or you can say a compromise. Women are not sex toys Generally it is found that men shows love and do sweet talks when they want sex from their partners, but when the sex is done everything is back to normal. Don't treat your woman as sex machine or sex toy. Love them with utmost care and affection. And that should not only remain to bed, ponder your love everywhere. Remember, they left their family just to create your family, so give respect to their sacrifices. WHAT WOMEN WANTS? What a Man can do to make his woman comfortable and happy? If you are married or in a relationships then this can help you. You belong with me The time you get married or you enter in a relationship, make your woman feel that she has made a perfect choice to be with you. Everything you do, whatever you plan for future, you have to give this notion to her that "You belong with me" that there is no one in the world out there who would love you and care for you like I do. Remember she leaves everything just to be with you and your family, so never let her down. Love her passionately Usually it is noticed that love vanishes in few years after you got married or in a relationship. Why does this happens? This happens because, man starts taking his woman for granted after some years of marriage or a relationship, he changes his priority from wife to work, this happens with everybody but I think a smart man will try to keep balance between his work and wife. Work is as essential as love in life and without work even love cannot survive but you have to say it to your wife that, "I work for you and our family" so that I can give you all everything whatever you guys wish for" and show her your love that you really mean it, say this to your wife once a week and see your wife will be supportive forever in whatever you do. Communicate with her Never underestimate her, communication is the best key to live a happy married life. Involve her in your thick and thin when it necessary. Talk to her for 10 minutes before you go for sleep, ask her about days routine, give her your attention whatever she says, try to resolve her problem if she faces any in domestic life. I am not saying you do this everyday but twice a week will really make wonders in your married life. Give Respect Our subconscious mind is way powerful than our conscious mind, you don't even realize, a small small insult by you would impact your woman subconsciously so hard that traces of those small small insults would turn out someday in a big disastrous event or tragedy. Respect your woman in order to get one and to live a better married life. And sometime even if you can't respect according to a situation, but don't insult her in front of everyone. Remember she is a mother of your child, whatever you do your child observes that, and I am sure you wouldn't want your child do the same mistakes what you did or doing.