BIKERS CLUB JULY 2019 ISSUE | Page 18

Experiencing the disappointment that might come with a decision's outcome, you can propel yourself to a new level of emotional evolution. You aren't doing yourself any favours when you try to save yourself from disappointment. Disappointment provides you with an opportunity to redefine your experiences in life. By refining your reframing skills, you increase your resilience. Bad decisions are your opportunity to master the art of self-forgiveness. When you make a "bad" decisions, you are the person who is usually the hardest on yourself. Before you can accept the consequences of your decision and move on, you must forgive yourself.  You won't always make perfect choices in your life. Acknowledge the beauty in your human imperfection, then move forward and on. Because of the occasional misstep, you enable yourself to live a Technicolor life. These emotions add pigment to your life. Without these things, you would feel soulless. Your life would be black and white. Make your decisions with gusto. Breathe with fire. You are here to live in color. Your ability to make a decision is an opportunity to exercise the freedom that is your birthright. How would you feel if you had no say in those decisions concerning your life? Would you feel powerless? Restricted? Suffocated? Now, focus on what it feels like to make the decisions you want to make. what do you feel? Freedom? Liberty? Independence? What feelings do you want to feel? As luck would have it, the freedom you want is yours. Be thankful for it in every decision you make, "good" or "bad."