ISSUE 02 | FEBRUARY 2020
BIKERS CLUB ® MAGAZINE | PAGE 32
Be willing to see the unchangeable
change. Surround yourself with positive
reinforcement.
The first step in creating massive change in
your life is not actually believing that it's
possible, it's being willing to see if it is possible. Keep a bottle of champagne in the fridge.
Change your morning alarm on your phone to
read the message: "CONGRATULATIONS!!!" Make
sure that the items that you see and touch
most often bring you positivity and
hopefulness. Keep an inspirational note on a
post-it next to your computer. Unfollow people
who make you feel bad about yourself and
follow those who are constantly posting
motivational messages and interesting ideas.
Make your newsfeed a place that can catalyze
your growth, instead of lessening your
perception of your worth.
You are not going to be able to jump from
being a complete skeptic to a wholehearted
believer. The step between those is just being
open to seeing what could be possible. You
could maybe try sending a few "scary emails," in
which you proposition a client or partner for
something that they do not have any reason to
respond to. You might have a few dozen
ignored messages, but eventually, someone will
respond.
The point is that you're willing to see if its
possible, that's what will change your life.
Give yourself permission to be
successful.
Instead of regurgitating the same old narrative
of believing you'll be happy once you get
promotion, work on changing your inner
monologue to "I allow my life to be good."
Give yourself permission to be happy and
successful, and not feel guilty about it. If you
have a subconscious association between
success being amoral, or corrupt, of course
you're not going to do what you need to do to
live the life you want to live. Instead, give
yourself permission to step into a whole, happy,
healthy, grounded and meaningful existence.
Don't allow other people's fears to
cast shadows of doubt.
The way people respond to news of your
success will tell you how they are really doing
in their lives.
If you announce your engagement, people who
are in happy marriages will be elated for you.
People who are in unhappy marriages will warn
you that it is difficult and that you should enjoy
your remaining time as "single" individuals.
The point is that other people's fears are
projections of their own situations. They have
nothing to do with what you are or aren't
capable of.
Speak your success as a present
fact, not a future plan.
Though you shouldn't say things like "I drive a
convertible," or "I am a CEO," if they are not in
fact true, do start speaking about what it is you
want out of life not in the context that you will
one day pursue it, but that you are already
living it.
Instead of saying: "I hope to do that one day,"
say, "I am strategizing how to do that now."
Instead of thinking: "I will be happy when I am
in a different place in my life," think, "I am
completely capable of being happy right here
and right now, nothing is holding me back.
Create a vision space.
Being able to imagine what it is you want out
of your life is absolutely essential for creating it,
because if you don't know where you're going,
you won't know which way to turn first.
Once you have a crystel clear image in your
mind for what it is you want and how it is you
want to live, you are then capable of beginning
to enact and create it. If you are still hazy or
torn between what you want, you will be
rendered incapable of taking real, meaningful
action toward anything.
Whether you use a Pinterest board, blog,
notebook or board, put together words and
images that represent what you want and how
you want to live.