Get Rid of Toxic People!
MY
POINT OF
VIEW
BY RAHUL MEHTA
FOUNDER | CEO | EDITOR OF
BIKERS CLUB & MAGAZINE
What is a toxin? It is the negativity, the poison that makes you incompetent and futile. It
turns you lazy and broken, and it sucks your energy to that extent where you remain
good for nothing. Your thought becomes inefficacious and junky; your skills, your
confidence, your self-belief gets torn down, and you start doubting your own worthiness
and the very existence for which you are here for, for which you are born for, and with
which you are grown up old. It slices you apart; it slices your thoughts, your attitude, and
more of it your dignity; for which you have worked hard, many sleepless nights you must
have spent working, thinking, and shaping your future and the future of your near dear
ones.
The toxin is the facet that you attract the most; it is that emotion that makes you
vulnerable, which deviates you from your goal and ambitions. It doesn't matter how hard
you work and be committed to your goals; it won't get you the desired results unless
positive brains surround you. Remember, our brain is designed for positivity and positive
mentality, but as the law of physics describes that the positivity attracts the negativity and
vice-a-versa.
So if you are a positive person, then it is accepted truth is that you will attract the
attention of the negative people because of the frontier cortex of our brain, which gets
vulnerable and attentive to the negative vibes which other persons frontier cortex emits.
Negativity is a strong force compare to positivity. Once your frontier cortex gets filled with
negativity, then your positive vibes change, and it is possible and inevitable that you
become one of the negative people unless you work on it at the correct time, otherwise
slowly, your downfall starts. You turn yourself into those people who made you cynical,
and you will attract positive people to make them harmful.
But yes, it is possible that you don't get affected by the negative people if you shed them
away from your life and your work. It is tough but achievable. So what you have to do to
remain positive and optimistic in whatever you do.
Followings are the few steps through which you can stay positive and constructive.
IDENTIFY THE NEGATIVE PEOPLE:
You must identify the negative people, but how?
Negative people possess some of the characteristics which positive people lack.
They are usually jealous: Negative people have this core emotion in them.
Preachers: Preaching is useful, but these people have the quality of obstructive
preachings.
Leg pullers: It is the core of the negative people. They pull your legs not because they want to, but it's their compulsion and helplessness
due to their incompetence because of the work that you can do they cannot.
Criticizers: Criticism is good, but if you find some people who have a habit of criticizing your work even if others appreciate your work,
then it's the time to walk away from them.
Spoilers: These are the people who are blemish by nature and are always be the reasons behind quarrels.
Social abusers: These creatures are the ones who always target you on social media, be it your posts, comments, or photos.
Depressed: There are two types of depression; 1) situational depression and 2) depression out of jealousy. You have to determine who is
what?
Cowards: These are the people who lack confidence and courage. It's okay to be timid, but it's not okay to discourage the courageous.
DON'T WALK AWAY FROM THE NEGATIVE PEOPLE, BUT RUN FROM THEM AND SHED THEM AWAY FROM YOUR LIFE:
Once you have identified these kinds of people, then it is essential that you run away from them and shed them away from your life, and
you must do that to achieve your goals and dreams. It is our very nature that we tend to ignore or forgive these creatures because we don't
care, and we think they won't affect us. But believe me, our forgiving nature is in-fact working against us. If you don't shed them away from
your life, then subconsciously, you are turning negative, and you don't even realize it till the time when situations and circumstances start
going against you. The reason behind this is that subconscious works mysteriously, the positive subconscious brings or attracts positive
opportunities, whereas the negative subconscious contorts the projects or goals on which you are working.
So take out some time and sit; identify the toxic people around you and in social networks. Once you determine them, then SHED THEM
AWAY FROM YOUR LIFE FOR THE PROGRESS, PROSPERITY, AND THE SUCCESS.