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  Interview Anxiety and stress with Ms. Anita ㅡ Emily Lomander Lopez 13 November 2018 For my project about anxiety and stress, I considered interviewing Ms. Anita, the Wellbeing Coordinator, to ask her a few questions about my topic​ : C​ an you introduce yourself and what you do at BFIS? a. So I am the Wellbeing Coordinator for the whole school so that goes from nursery right way through to IB, and so part of that role is building and implementing the wellbeing curriculum. So we have a program now in middle and high school, we touch in with little droplets of wellbeing issues within the elementary school, and then with our early childhood, we have like mini little sessions with the little ones. W​ hat is your view on stress and anxiety? a. Okay, so... Here is something that many young people have to deal with. Right? And, how do we find those tools, within ourselves, so that we can deal with it? So my role here is to provide those opportunities for students to have like a kind of toolkit, so that when they have something challenging in their life, or when they feel those sensations of stress and anxiety, they have a toolkit of things they can do to deal with it better. Which is why we are doing the .b course, the mindfulness course that's part of that. H​ ow big of a social issue is stress and anxiety for teenagers? a. I think i is big, from what I see and what I hear, and you know listening to you guys and observing, being among. And you know, this is my area of expertise and just seeing the effects that social media has on you guys. You know that could be stressful. The pace, exams, homelife, relationships, friends, all of this stuff. Right? W​ hat are some of the common mistakes which people, in general, do to cause stress and anxiety? - Unintentional a. So the unintentional stuff is what happens is that we get carried away in our worries and our thoughts, the type of thought that can distract you. In the mindfulness course, we talk about your thoughts being like traffic on a road. And sometimes we get taken away on a worry bus, it takes us away, and we get stuck on it. And we just keep perpetuating that worry, and those negative thoughts just keep coming around again and again, right? And when we do that for a long period of time, we can get exhausted, it can deplete our energy, and it can actually affect our immune system and our health, both physical and emotional health. So that's the unintentional one where we are not aware that we are doing that sometimes.