Best speaker Magazine Issue 2 - December 2017 | Page 47

SMILE PLEASE M y mother always say that when I came to this world I was carrying a bat in one hand and a ball in the other, because ever since I was a kid, cricket has been my passion, my life. A couple of years ago, while I was playing cricket with my friends one day, we lost 4 quick wickets within the first 3 overs. Our team was in a desperate situation and in need of a big partnership. It was my opportunity to bat after the 4 th wicket. My friend Shobi and I were on either sides of the pitch and we were partners. I felt that this was the best chance to show my talent and to become the highest run scorer for the team. But my friend Shobi came to me and said “brother we want more runs. Don’t hurry, just score singles.” But I thought to myself, “Who cares? Why should I listen to his words? I have my own batting style.” The only thing in my mind was to become the highest scorer for my team. For that I needed to target the boundaries; 4s and 6s. I needed to score more. But Shobi was also a good player. If I offered him the chance to score, he would become the highest scorer for the team. With all this in my mind I faced the first ball. I missed. Again I prepared myself to face the second ball. I missed. Then I made some adjustments and played my third ball. I missed. Shobi came to me and said “brother, what are you doing? We need runs, we have to score, and we have to win. The ground is too big so you can’t hit boundaries. Just rotate the strike.” But I was not in the mood to listen to Shobi. Finally I hit a couple of boundaries. I became the highest run scorer for my team. But my team lost the match. My friend Shobi fought with me and we did not play cricket again together. Several years later, one day my friend Dishpan asked me to do a favor for Shobi. But I said ‘’brother we had a fight during our school days and I don’t want to talk to him. He replied, ‘’You left school a long time ago. Do you still have the same misunderstanding? While I was schooling I promised my friends that we can be together for a long time. But after we left school I got separated from most of my friends because of studies and work. Now I want to meet them and spend time with them but most of them are not available. Brother, if you meet someone on the road after a long time, whether it’s a friend, a relative, an ex, or an enemy, smile at that person. Ask them how they are and share some sweet memories. Sometimes our smiles and kind words can make an impact on people. You never know when you are going to meet that person again. Leave your ego and talk to Shobi.” My friends, life is short. Always push your ego to one side and share the fun, smiles, laughter and sweet moments with others because you can make a deep impact in someone's life. Gavelier KUNALAN NANTHAGOPAN Faculty of Commerce and Management BEST SPEAKER MAGAZINE 2017 47