big kids
BY LYNNIECE NISBETT-GARNETT
Christmas Gifts
on a
Budget
I’ll be quite frank, if you are just starting to think
about Christmas gifts and you have more than a
couple to buy, you will probably spend more than you
want to. The pressure ramps up if you are buying for
kids that want the latest gadgets to boost their “cool”
status. So what’s a parent on a budget supposed to
do, especially in pricey Bermuda?
Shift the Focus
Encourage family and friends to join you in giving back to
others this year. Acts of kindness are deeply treasured and
they offer wonderful bonding opportunities! Washing a
friend’s car or cutting a relative’s yard for the month are just
a couple of ideas. You can also volunteer with a charity or
church to prepare and serve Christmas dinner to a residen-
tial home or those less fortunate.
Create a theme for the holidays if you still want to cel-
ebrate. My family focuses on Jesus’ birth and we have a spiri-
tual emphasis. Our decorations often include their pictures
and crafts from church. Baking is another fun theme that
I’ve explored with my girlfriends. Cellophane, twine and
a handwritten note on parchment paper added a special
touch to the cakes. Presentation is everything!
Be Honest
Have a conversation with your kids if your budget is restrict-
ed and let them know that Christmas in Bermuda will be
different. Share the fact that there are many grown-ups who
are working less or don’t have a job so that they understand
that the money challenge is a community issue. Toddlers
typically don’t have high expectations so talking to them
may not be necessary. Children who believe in Santa Clause
may need a variation however, and fairytales are perfect for
that! Older kids may surprise you with their cost cutting sug-
gestions so don’t be afraid to talk to them.
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