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are healthy now. Luckily they didn’t have the HIV virus.” The Neale family initially made their home in Washington, DC. But, Ms. Neale felt she wanted a simpler life for them and began talks with the Bermuda Broad- casting Company (where she currently works as the Creative-Production Direc- tor and Executive Producer of Special Projects.) In 2010, the Neale family moved to Bermuda. For Ms. Neale, this return was a dream come true. “It’s something I’ve always had in the back of my mind.” The move home was poignant for her. The twins were 3 years T R Y OUR PRODUCTS! Host a fun evening with friends and receive some of our most popular items for FREE! Contact Marti Chiappa @ MRC NAME Independent Title Sales Consultant Independent Sales Consultant Ask about booking a home demo. e-mail FUN!!! Makes cleaning website [email protected] Ph: 336-6833 old – the same age she was when she left Bermuda with her parents. Like many parents, Ms. Neale says motherhood has involved sacrifices. “Becoming a mother, adopting children, has been a major life style change.” After 20 years of anchoring the news, she’s traded it in for reading bedtime stories. “The last thing I got to do was ‘M.C.’ two of President Obama’s Inaugural Balls. There were huge global moments taking place and instead of grabbing my book, I’m thinking, I’ve got to change diapers!” Ms. Neale would like to take Eme- bet and Eyasu to visit Ethiopia. “We talk about it. I want them to know. I want them to have the truth.” The twins have eight brothers and sisters. Although it would be wonderful for the twins to meet their siblings and birth parents, Ms. Neale explained that it’s illegal for her to make contact on the twins’ behalf before they are 18 years old. “That would be a great 18th birthday present!” The adoption process can take many years. Ms. Neale says it’s not for the “feint-of- heart.” She advises parents to stay focused on the goal and be patient. “Don’t mark the calendar. Have a wonderful support system to tell you that it’s okay. Have faith. Ms. Neale also says you can’t control everything. “You’re dealing with so much – different govern- ments, judicial systems, and cultures. Ride it out. Know that your child is coming home with you. You are their forever family.” improving quality of life The Onionpatch Academy Ages 3 months – 5 years • Open 7:30AM – 6PM Tel. 441.29-ONION (296-6466) • Fax. 441.236.5912 www.opacademy.bm • [email protected] 28 Veronica’s Story Orphans Foundation The Veronica’s Story Orphans Foundation is a charity named for a little girl named Veronica. Tracey Neale travelled to South Africa to film a documentary on the orphans’ crises. She visited an orphanage in Johannesburg, Ethembeni – a place where a quarter of the population are HIV positive. Entering the orphanage they were profiling, Ms. Neale expected to meet a caregiver - instead she met Veronica. “I felt a tug at my skirt… (my) glance caught the fluffy edge of a blue & white polka dot dress.” The 1 ½ year old appeared healthy with bright engaging eyes and ready giggles. Ms. Neale felt she was looking into the eyes of her daughter. A caregiver told her that Veronica was one of the orphans she’d come to profile for her documentary. In fact, all the children in that orphanage were HIV positive. Some had been raped, some were failed abortions, and some were abandoned when their parents died. All of the children were left there to live a painful future with no anti retro-viral drugs. Ms. Neale filmed her documentary and returned to the United States. Before leaving she began the paperwork to adopt Veronica. She hoped to prolong Veronica’s life with love, nutrition and good medical care. When she told the orphanage of her intentions, they informed her she was “misguided”. Ve- ronica wasn’t available for adoption. None of the children in that orphanage were. All were deemed “un-adoptable” by the orphanage and Government leaders because of being HIV positive. They weren’t waiting to be adopted. They were waiting to die. Ms. Neale persisted. She returned to South Africa, inquiring about any potential for adopting Veronica. The answer was al- ways no. The once giggly girl’s health rapidly deteriorated and Ms. Neale had no choice but to leave her. From heartbreak, anger and frustra- tion Ms. Neale started the Veronica’s Story Orphans Foundation. The charity supports the ground operations that provide clean water, food, shelter, housing, medicine and education to orphans and children around the world. Projects in Bermuda have included the donation of uniforms, school supplies, assistance to the Sunshine League, medical supplies for Haiti and “The Doctor’s Blog from Haiti.” “Every 14 seconds a child is orphaned due to war, natural disaster, poverty or disease. There are 15 million orphans due to AIDS.” Veronica’s Story Orphans Foundation. For further information please go to www. veronicasstory.org.