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NEW good mom, or ashamed that you cannot care for your baby. • Fear of being left alone with the baby • Trouble sleeping when your baby sleeps (more than the lack of sleep new moms usually get). Sleeping too much, difficulty falling or stay- ing asleep • Feeling numb or disconnected from your baby, family, and friends • Difficulty concentrating, remem- bering details, or making decisions • Having scary or negative thoughts about the baby, like thinking some- one will take your baby away or hurt your baby. • Thoughts of hurting yourself or the baby (if this happens, get im- mediate help- call 911, tell a close relative or family member, or go to your doctor). If these warning signs or symptoms last longer than 2 weeks, you may need to get help. What causes it? PPD may be associated with: • A change in hormone levels after childbirth • Previous experience of depression or anxiety • Family history of depression or mental illness • Stress involved in caring for a newborn and managing new life changes • Having a challenging baby who cries more than usual, is hard to comfort, or whose sleep and hun- ger needs are irregular and hard to predict • Having a baby with special needs (premature birth, medical compli- cations, illness) • First-time motherhood, very young motherhood, or older motherhood • Other emotional stressors, such as the death of a loved one or family problems • Financial or employment problems • Isolation and lack of social support Effects the Entire Family: Children of mothers with postpartum depression can; become withdrawn, irritable, or inconsolable. They may display an insecure attachment and behavioral problems, experience prob- lems in cognitive, social, and emotional development, and have a higher risk of anxiety disorders and major depression in childhood and adolescence. What about Fathers? Fathers can also be depressed in the postpartum period, especially if the mother is depressed or if the father is not satisfied with the marital relationship or with life after the birth of the child. Approximately 4% of fathers experience depression in the first year of their child’s life. Moreover, by a child’s 12th birthday, 21% of fathers will have experienced one or more episodes of depression. in the East End !! Baby Clothes, Accessories & Baby Gear for Little Boys & Girls Newborn – 4T What to do: If you think you may be suffering from PPD, don’t face it alone—Seek help from a psychologist or other mental health provider or contact your doctor. Talk openly about your feelings with your partner, other mothers, friends, and relatives. Recruit relatives or close friends who can help you take care of the baby. Get as much sleep or rest as you can. Once you have gotten clearance from your doctor, try to exercise regu- larly. Try not to worry about unimport- ant tasks and cut down on less impor- tant responsibilities—be realistic about what you can do while taking care of a new baby. References: Public Interest Directorate, Women’s programs office (2014). Postpartum Depression. Retrieved from The American Psychological Association website: apa.org. Division of Reproductive Health, National Center for Chronic Disease Prevention and Health Promotion (2013). Depression among women of reproductive age. Retrieved from The Centers of Disease Control and Prevention website: cdc.gov Baby Boutique 109 Mullet Bay Road, St. Georges Opposite the playground Telephone: 707-0997 STORE HOURS Tues, Thurs, Fri: 5:30pm – 7:30pm Sat: 11:30am – 7:00pm Continued on page 22 www.bermudaparent.bm 21