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Family LIFE The Forgotten Art of Family Dinner & the Importance of the Kitchen T he shared family meal used to be a given, a standard that unfortunately has been interrupted by the presence of screens and other modern day technologies. The last few decades have shown a shift from families eating together to meal time becoming “me” time. In today’s busy world, family members are dashing from one activity to another, making the evening meal a forgotten tradition. There is a power in food that brings people together, and having the right tools is essential to getting back to the basics that shape our lives. We need to take back the time we can muster 6 BERMUDA PARENT MAGAZINE with our loved ones, and what better place to do it than your own kitchen? In a recent study published by the journal of Physiology and Behavior, sci- entists have found that people who eat together tend to get along better. The same study noted that when individuals had discussions over meals, they were more likely to feel friendly and make compromises. This shows that fostering discussion with your children is criti- cal in their development as a person. Research also shows that children who frequently ate with their parents had better communication habits than those who did not. BY BATE’S Getting together at dinner time also encourages healthier eating habits. It is easy to get caught in the pattern of “take out” as an easy alternative, however as parents, you have much greater control of your child’s nutri- tion intake when you are preparing meals from home. Research shows that teenagers and young adults who regu- larly had family dinners are less likely to have anxiety when the time comes to move out and live on their own. You are preparing them for their lives, and showing them that correct eating habits can greatly impact their health in the future.