Barbarin Magazine Barbarin Magazine Vol 5 | Page 24

TEA TIME W/ TAMMY sidechicks SCrambling for a position First of all, lets define sidechick: the other woman: a female that is neither the wife or girlfriend who has relations with the male while he is in another relationship. Okay, with that being said, if you are alright knowing that he's in a committed relationship with someone else and having you to play with... that's fine, just don,t be in your feelings when you see him with her. I'm Just Saying...some of you sidechicks goes way too far. Ain't nothing wrong with being a sidechick if you know the rules to the game and also learn how to mind your manners, things will go real smooth. Let me share a few tips that can make this process a success. October 2016 1st Rule: Know your position. If you know he's in a relationship with someone else, stop trying to be with him all day and night. What takes five minutes don't take 24 hours. Remember you're the SIDECHICK, not his wife! 2nd Rule: Stay in your lane and mind your own business. Stop being messy and nosy. Meaning, stop stalking his social media pages trying to find out who's the main person in his life, because we all know that it is not you. Stop making fake pages trying to be friends with his ol' lady, her friends or any of her peeps. All you trying to do is get something on her to present to him, thinking that's going to make him leave. Calling all night long playing on the phone, texting him after hours...that's child-