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I t ’ s hard to be yourself on social media OHEL DAVID & SHLOMO At TorahValues.com search shul abbreviation ODS B y : E d d i e Ta w i l Barkai Yeshiva When Michael got a new skateboard, he took a picture of it and he got a lot of likes. Michael really hates to skateboard but he only bought it to be popular. Michael was only acting to like it. Also, his friend told him that it was so cool. His friend also told him that if he didn’t get one, he By being yourself, wouldn’t be popular. Michael couldn’t you put something he wouldn’t be popular. Michael is in the world that was not post real comments on Face- not there before. By: Renee Hadef Magen David Yeshivah Do you have true friends or fake just do what he wanted to do or else always afraid to be himself. He does book. It’s just what other people like. By: Moshe Chaya Barkai Yeshiva You should use social media the right By: Moshe Benhamu Barkai Yeshiva When I got home one day, I went on way. The right way is that you should Facebook. I saw that people began follow your own goals. Do not follow to follow people who surfed. I went other people’s goals. Be individual! on line to get a picture of a kid surf- Be who you are! Don’t follow other ing. I posted it in Facebook and I got people just to be cool. An example of the down side of social media is that if you see a picture of Instagram more followers. Social media strips our individual qualities. If you like music and people don’t, you’ll get a dif- friends? Your followers aren’t your friends. Some are but some aren’t. You shouldn’t be jealous of someone who has more followers than you. Don’t change your identity because you want to be “cool”. Do what you feel comfortable. A friend is someone who will be there all the time. They will lend you a helping hand and a shoulder to cry on. book, you can’t express your feelings B y : M i r i a m Tu r k i e h Barkai Yeshiva Instagram, Facebook. All social media because your friends aren’t really your distracts you from being you! When friends. It locks you away from be- do you ever stop and think, “What ing yourself and having true friends. do I want to do?” When you are in your teenage years, all your friends media the right way and be yourself. B y : Yi s r a e l M e i r O v a d i a Barkai Yeshiva If a cool person likes one type of See names of authors music, then everyone follows him. that has a lot of likes, you try posting that same picture to get more likes. Use social media the right way. Real friends are friends who care about you and let you be yourself. Those are your real friends and those are the people you should be with. Use social by shul page 104 ferent hobby you don’t like. On Face- They don’t search for the music they actually like but the one he likes. 74 Bar/Bat Mitzvah Magazine 718-909-6060 spend and spend and you don’t think you need all the things your friends buy. But, you are under pressure to buy things that you don’t really want. View magazine online at BMmagazine.com