BANZA June 2016 Issue | Page 21

FEATURE STORY of Shadows by Kaone Tlagae July 22nd, 1990. Bliss. My folks got married, my brother Chukwuemeka, conceived barely two months later. I was on the tail end of my childhood years, living a life that can be construed as glamorous through the lens of an ordinarily, below average person. My mother was a petite, enormously loving homemaker and my father, a giant, towering figure whose muscles sworn, even when he was asleep. He was the typical, African man with a character deeply marinated in ancient ancestral beliefs and customs with which he led the family. My brother and I were acquainted with my mother because of her demure character reflected in the gentle and mild Countenance with which she approached everyone. She was a calm soul, cast a few words on rare occasions and only when necessary. We were the traditional type of family where children and parents had clearly set boundaries and with my father working as a military man; we became more estranged to his presence because he was rarely home due to his extensive traveling. Although, we knew very well of how much he was fond of his family. He came once in a while, and whenever he was around, the home became complete.