BAJAN SUN MAGAZINE
BOUNCING BACK FROM AN AFFAIR CONTINUED
This venting is also often a process and not a oneoff event which is characterized by the convenient
forgetting of all that has occurred. An affair
forever changes a relationship and even though
healing is possible, what was lost can never be
regained and as painful as this might be for both
parties to accept, it must be, if there is to be true
progress. This process may be assisted through
counseling, therapy or personal pursuits like
journaling which help to clarify difficult
emotions.
Redefining
Redefining the damaged relationship is necessary
and should be seen as an on-going part of the
healing process. Deciding together how you want
your new relationship to look is going to be a
major step in getting your couple groove back.
Since an affair involves a fair amount of deceit,
then coming clean about all aspects of the