A positive self-image is important . How we see and think about ourselves affects every aspect of our lives , from our relationships and interactions to the goals we set and achieve . A positive-self image means better physical , mental , social , and emotional wellbeing . It means feeling confident , competent , secure , and worthy . Cleveland Clinic describes self-image as “ an internal dictionary that describes the characteristics of the self , including such things as intelligent , beautiful , ugly , talented , selfish , and kind . These characteristics form a collective representation of our assets and liabilities as we see them .”
We are the first mirrors that reflect a child ’ s image back to them . They come to see what we see . A child ’ s sense of self develops within relationships , and relationships then reinforce what a child thinks and feels about herself . Carla Poole puts it beautifully in the article titled “ Ages and Stages : How Children Develop Self- Concept ” when she says , “ Caring for a baby is a joining together of two individuals who are searching to make a deep emotional connection .” I think that ’ s a beautiful description of parenting . Those first interactions we have with baby and every one after leaves an impression , a mark on the developing self-image . Here are three things you can do to help your child develop a positive self-image .
• Tune in and be fully present . Parents and caregivers can create a positive emotional bond with an infant through caring interactions with lots of touch and eye contact . Interpreting a baby ’ s cues is important in the development of a secure attachment .