now that I can view love in a whole new light. I know now that if ever I was blessed to find love with someone who would be willing to love me back, I would always be honest, truthful and caring. I would never shout or yell at her. If I did shout it would be to tell the world that I found the love of my life. If I were to yell it would be to the heavens to let the creator know that I am thankful that he blessed me with an angel. My love for her would be shown by my actions. I would not be able to put into words the many ways I would feel. She would never have to tell me to wash the dishes or take out the trash. I’ ll even do the laundry if that would put a smile on her face, whatever it would take to make her happy.
Whatever it would take to make her life easier and worth living is what I would be willing to do. My love for her would not be jealous because my trust would be stronger than jealousy. My love for her would be kind because the creator showed kindness to me by placing her in my life. My love for her would bare all of her problems all of her pains all of her worries all of her challenges and weaknesses. All of her weaknesses will be turned into both of our strengths. Any challenges that she faces will become my challenges. When she is weak I will be strong. When she is sad then I will make her happy. When she is sick, I will nurse her. I will soothe all her afflictions because her burdens become my burdens. This is the price of true love to me and to me true love is priceless.
If it’ s hard to understand how a person can feel this way. First you have to understand what it’ s like not to love or have someone to love you back. You have to understand the pain of loneliness and if given a chance to love and be loved that person would cherish it because they would never want to lose it and be lonely again. So if ever I was blessed with finding love I would cherish it because I’ ve been searching for it my whole life. All these years of loneliness and reflection helped me to understand the one thing that is missing from my life. Love will help me to see that my other half, whoever she may be is perfect and wonderful and everything that I dreamed she would be. And if she believes that she has flaws I would prove her wrong. If she were stand
17 ing in front of a mirror I would tell her that the only flaw that I see is the mirror. I would honor the one I love because love is 100 % not 50 / 50. If we both give 100 % in the relationship then the love between us both will continue to blossom no matter the storms we face. I will always give her my best even when I am at my worst. Understanding the pain of being hurt will give me the incentive to never break anyone’ s heart. Faithfulness and integrity will overpower me when it comes to the one I love. When she confides in me I will listen to her, I will hear her. I will understand her. I will understand what she feels. I will understand her thoughts, her dreams, her goals and her visions. And the reason I will listen is that you listen to those who are important to you. Every word she speaks will be important to me. When you’ ve never been loved, when you never loved, then when you finally find it you will do everything in your power to keep it. And when you have it you will appreciate it and understand that love does exist and is within all of our grasps. We just have to be patient because you can’ t rush love. It takes time to find it.
If it takes me a lifetime to find that special someone, it’ s okay. I can wait because for now I can appreciate the love that the creator has shown me. I’ ve been shown the importance of first loving myself and because I love myself I know that I can love another and for that I am grateful. My name is Vincent Frazier thank you for your time!