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IRRESISTIBLE PEOPLE
UNMISTAKABLE
HABITS OF
BY: DR. TRAVIS BRADBERRY,
AUTHOR AND COFOUNDER OF
TALENTSMART
IRRESISTIBLE
PEOPLE
T
oo many people succumb to the mistaken
belief that being likeable comes from
natural, unteachable traits that belong
only to a lucky few—the good looking, the
fiercely social, and the incredibly talented.
It’s easy to fall prey to this misconception.
Some people, regardless of what they lack— money, looks,
or social connections—always radiate with energy and
confidence. Even the most skeptical individuals find
themselves enamored with these charming individuals.
These people are the life of every party. They’re the ones
you turn to for help, advice, and companionship.
You just can’t get enough of them, and they leave you
asking yourself, “What do they have that I don’t? What
makes them so irresistible?”
The difference? Their sense of self-worth comes from
within.
Irresistible people aren’t constantly searching for
validation, because they’re confident enough to find it in
themselves. There are certain habits they pursue every day
to maintain this healthy perspective.
Since being irresistible isn’t the result of dumb luck, it’s
time to study the habits of irresistible people so that you
can use them to your benefit.
Get ready to say “hello” to a new, more irresistible you.
THEY FOCUS ON PEOPLE MORE THAN
ANYTHING ELSE.
Irresistible people possess an authentic interest in those
around them. As a result, they don’t spend much time
thinking about themselves. They don’t obsess over how
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