Autism Parenting Magazine Issue 53 | Page 3

Editor’s Letter O ver the past few months I have been delighted by the number of graduation announcements and messages I have received from friends beaming with excitement. “It was wonderful to see [my son] walk across the auditorium stage and accept his diploma from the school principal,” emailed one friend whose son with autism recently graduated alongside his class. Another parent shared with me her daughter’s plans, which include a job training program and part-time work; goals they have worked so hard to reach. I am thrilled for these families as I am all too aware of their challenges and the daily commitment they face in ensuring a secure future for their children. I am also mindful of the countless families who haven’t received the same level of autism support or resources. As these children transition into adulthood, sadly they find themselves without school-based services. And too often parents are left scrambling to find new environments and programs to meet changing needs. So how can families prevent their children from falling through the cracks as they enter adulthood? It’s an ongoing concern, making this an issue you can’t miss. Knowing how vital it is to have support at times like these, we reached out to several experts for advice. First, we introduce you to Meghan Mulvenna, founder of Special Travelers, LLC. In her piece, Expert Advice: Bridging the Gap Between Learning and Living, Meghan explains why it’s critical for families to take the lead on bridging the gap for children on the spectrum, and offers her tips on ways to take that first step; her guidance is sure to make a difference. Second, we want to introduce you to Michael L. Stuart, an autism parent and educator with 35 years experience. When it was time for Michael’s 24-year old son, Aaron, to transition to the workplace, he was not able to find a job. Motivated to prepare his son, diagnosed with severe autism, Michael created Operation Meaningful Life, a program that helps people with special needs to get suitable training. Please take a look at his piece, Special Needs Training Program Promotes a Life of Productivity and Achievement, and read how Michael’s inspirational program is changing so many lives. We also have a piece from Robin Flutterby Borakove entitled New Support Program Keeps Adults with ASD Happy. An autism advocate diagnosed with Asperger’s syndrome, Robin has created a program to help adults with autism who have lost their vital, care-giving parents. Her concept is to partner people with varying needs so they can support one another; it’s an appealing notion which promotes both friendship and the possibility for independence. One of our regular contributors, Nick Malcuit has provided a poignant piece this month, called A Message to Special Needs Parents: Dream Often and Dream Big! As the stepparent to two young men with autism, Nick shares a few of his eldest stepson’s journal entries (with permission) which highlight his journey toward success; from learning to drive to graduating from college, this young man’s personal account is sure to inspire. The ability to provide the autism community with expert guidance is a top priority here at Autism Parenting Magazine. We often hear from parents who are at their wit's end when it comes to bedtime. If this is a challenge in your household, please read Aditi Srivastava’s piece called Simple Ways to Help Your Child with ASD Sleep Without Medicine. Aditi is a pediatric occupational therapist who provides an innovative approach toward helping your child sleep. Does your child with autism have issues with feeding and/or swallowing? You may be interested in Marybeth Ames’ article called Taking an Important Look at Autism and Habitual Dysphagia as the university instructor with decades of experience in medical, clinical, and school-based therapy, e xplains this habitual swallowing dysfunction and its connection to autism. As you probably know, finding ways to calm and relieve everyday pressures can be a challenge for kids with autism. In an effort to make change, we connected with pediatric occupational therapist Amy Smith and she shared her creative Calming Cookie Dough concept, which only requires the use of a therapy ball. Please take a look at Simple Ways to Help Relieve Your Child’s Stress for an inexpensive way to organize your child’s sensory system, relax, and be better suited to handle life’s stressors. Speaking of stress, is the thought of donning a costume and heading door-to-door collecting candy this month a little overwhelming for your child? Please take a look at Gabi Morgan’s Top Ways to Help Your Child with Autism Participate in the Halloween Fun if your child wants to take part but is a little apprehensive. If you’re in search of an inspirational read, be sure to take a look at our selection of personal narratives written by readers like you. In An Illustration of Love: Two Angels in a White Cadillac, Colette Evangelista describes how a near tragedy miraculously turned into renewed optimism. Another beautifully written piece was provided by Terra Singletary, an educator and mother to a young adult with autism. Her tender account of their connection and journey in Excelling in Life with Asperger’s - A Unique Perspective, is sure to warm your heart. Wishing you the love, guidance, and support your family needs as you prepare for the future. Kind regards, Amy KD Tobik Editor-in-Chief Disclaimer: Autism Parenting Magazine tries its best to deliver honest, unbiased reviews, resources, and advice, but please note that due to the variety of capabilities of people on the spectrum, these are recommendations and not guaranteed by Autism Parenting Magazine or its writers. Medical information, including but not limited to, text, graphics, images and other material contained within Autism Parenting Magazine is for informational purposes only. Always seek the advice of your physician with any questions you may have regarding treatment.