Autism Communication Parenting Skills Advice
You have to open up and realize that you will need the support of others , even if it is for 10 minutes of alone time . That ’ s right ! You are no good to your child if you do not take care of yourself .
Our babies feel our energy , and we must stay strong , positive , and healthy , physically and mentally . We want to believe that we can handle it all and that we have the superhero emblem embedded in our hearts , however , everyone has a breaking point .
1 . Never be afraid to ask for help You will be surprised at how welcoming people are once you tell them you are in need of resources
2 . Create a routine Be as consistent as possible and make sure that part of your child ’ s routine includes activities of his / her interest
3 . Carve out a minimum of 30 minutes a day for yourself . Self-care activities could include meditating , reading , dancing , or working out Please do whatever relaxes you and helps you to de-stress
4 . Celebrate the small things that you and your child accomplish It may be as simple as using the appropriate food utensils at home and in public
5 . Never be embarrassed of your child because he / she belongs to you Give praise to your child when he / she accomplishes a goal , no matter how small it is
6 . Monthly play dates are essential This helps with your child ’ s social skills and gives you the opportunity to meet parents who can relate to your situation
7 . Join a support group Joining a support group reminds you that you are not alone in your journey with autism . It is just as important to listen as it is to speak
8 . Speak with your special education director or case manager
Speak to those in charge of educational departments near you if you have any questions about autism or a special needs program
9 . Talk to your pediatrician This is where you can receive a wealth of information that is specific to your child
10 . Keep it short and sweet Last but not least , the educator in me wants you to remind you of K . I . S . S . ( Keep it Short & Sweet )
All of these things can be accomplished once you create your personal village . It may consist of family , friends , coaches , or individuals who have knowledge of working with autistic children . Once you open up to the idea of receiving and accepting help , just sit back and watch your village grow .
Miesha Gibson , BS , MA , ELL is a native Houstonian . Miesha has been in education for 22 years , as an elementary school teacher with a specialty in Special Education . She received a Bachelor ’ s in Interdisciplinary Studies , a Master ’ s in Counseling , and certification in ESL ( English Language Learner – ELL ) from Prairie View A & M University . Miesha is currently teaching fifth grade Reading in Fort Bend Independent School District .
Although teaching is a passion of hers , the most important part of her life is raising her three sons . She is heavily involved in servicing her community by working with parents and educating them about the process of special education in public schools . In 2014 , Miesha began an organization called Joy of Julian in support of her son Julian , who is autistic .
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