Authentically You Magazine A Mother's Joy May 2017 | Page 27

A Mother's Joy  By: Tiffany Davis What is a Mother’s Joy? On the 2nd Sunday, every year, the United States ‘officially’ honors mothers on Mother’s Day. It is when everyone, typically, shows their mom some extra love! A day to celebrate and acknowledge sacrifices made. A day when we honor the one who gave and continues to give birth to generations. As I prepared for this article, not having the privilege of being a mother, I chatted with my own mother. I also called upon some of my favorite mothers on social media and asked, what is a mothers' joy? The answers varied, obviously, but there were a few that undoubtedly were very similar! 3. Plant something I remember growing up and having a garden. That garden is very much reminiscent of family and being together (planting, harvesting, eating) and so much of my eating habits today. We always had fresh vegetables. It taught me how to appreciate where my food comes from. I realize not everyone has space for an outside garden but you can do a potted herb garden with basil, thyme, and rosemary. Responses like: “Taking care of themselves,” “seeing my child happy,” “smiles for just being mom,” “hearing my child's voice,” “small accomplishments…responsible adults,” “making their way in the world,” “lessons taught being used in adulthood,” “true miracle of child birth,” “being a blessing to others…” That really got me to thinking… what can we, as mothers, as caregivers, as nurturers give to make the above responses manifest in our children? What lessons are we teaching our children? Are we teaching them about health and wellness? Specifically, how it relates to seeing them happy and taking care of themselves? Nurturing children is a gift and teaching them to nourish themselves is an equally great and important gift. Honor Her The Bible states Ephesians 6 KJVV 2 “Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise— KJV 3 That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth. Now who doesn’t want to live long on this earth? Living long, in part, is honoring your mother. It also entails making conscious food choices. The earlier we start with our children the more success they have for a wellness lived life. Where do we start with nourishment? 1. Be an example Mothers, I know you give so much t