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3 . The most impactful lessons come from seeing yourself in the mirror , thanks to them .
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sources . In case you are wondering , he passed but no flying colors .
The Records are extremely helpful when it feels like something is going of course . The Records Keepers can remind you that your course and your kid ’ s course are not the same , parallel , or even in the same plane sometimes .

3 . The most impactful lessons come from seeing yourself in the mirror , thanks to them .

Yep , everything you need to learn about yourself , your kid reflects back to you with immaculate clarity , discomfort and opportunity . The personality traits that most annoy , irritate or infuriate you are likely the same ones that you have - and truly don ’ t love about yourself . Your kid is giving you the opportunity to shift , heal and recalibrate , for your benefit and theirs .
See above , where I mention how my son is a boundary pusher … yep , that ’ s me . My preference is when “ authority ” attempts to convince me of beliefs , stories , edicts - just

“ The Records are accessible and ready to support all of us as we continue to evolve as parents and students ” because they said so . So naturally when my son began questioning my rules , he deemed arbitrary , I got pissed . It took me a nice heartto-heart with my Record Keepers to realize that I was working through my own healing with my beliefs around authority and control and he was mirroring that for me . Turns out I didn ’ t want to look at that part of myself , but these kids have a tremendous ability to force us to look , right in the eye , of who we truly are .

I credit the transformation my parenting has undergone to my relationship with the Record Keepers . I intentionally pause and ask if for guidance and truth when I am bumping up against a challenge . The Records are accessible and ready to support all of us as we continue to evolve as parents and students .
JAMI HEARN - Jami is an Intuitive Women ’ s Empowerment Coach who empowers successful spiritual women who , despite outside success , still struggle with selfjudgment . Inner worth , and a lack of purpose . Through her coaching , offerings and retreats , Jami empowers women to reconnect to their sacred wisdom , own their sovereign voice , and step into their divine feminine power , so they can consciously create the life they are truly worthy of . Unleash your inner goddess ! Jami invites you to take the transformational Goddess Archetype Quiz today . You can learn more about Jami ’ s empowering services at www . JamiHearn . com .
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