for their attempts at the hard work they are doing. A letter or note to them would also be much appreciated, even if you sent it anonymously. Just let them know that you understand
that they are doing their best. Even if you write a letter about this that you don't send, it will go a long way towards healing any hurt feelings or misunderstandings that you may still hold.
I have a lot of trouble believing these things, but am able to do this exercise easily with the Unitarian Universalist Associations that I attended for over a decade. This is definitely a work in progress.
When you have some time, there is one last exercise you may want to try. After all, there is a bit of God/dess in all of us.
Take your list of what God(s) or Goddess is and circle all of the best qualities on it. For many people, this will be the entire list as they come to realize that any negative qualities were just man's misunderstandings or misinterpretations of how to view the Divine.